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Kaynight contributes precisely nothing in terms of revealing anything.

Or even expressing an opinion. Why bother discussing it.

It's a vindictive, spiteful coward that isn't worth the attention.
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You must be so lonely. So scared. What a life you must have Kaynight.
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Well you aren't a hero. I know people here that are brave. You're the biggest coward here.
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A viscous bully that contributes absolutely nothing.
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Just running scared...

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I just hope that you aren't as lonely offline as you are here. Sure you have never lost anyone. You've never opened your heart for a second.
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Anyway onwards and upwards. I hope you've enjoyed your sexual kicks here today Kay. You clearly aren't capable of having an offline sex life.
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Reveal nothing. As you ever do. I hope you are laughing because if offline is anything like online you've got no one.
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Goodnight tree.
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He is impotent...

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night tomas

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I dont give a flying fuck what you do Kay but leave Caroline alone...

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.. I was there, Once.. maybe, twice!

 

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Tom holds all the records. It's unbelievable really. He has a formula people love. 

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Good morning guys
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I am surprised that there has been a lot of posting here though it's true I post profusely at times.

I think that my thread is just a replica of a communal meeting place offline.

If you go to a bar there isn't a limit to what you can say or how often you can say it and it's the same here.

Naturally you have to stay within the law and the moderators are the equivalent of the police here.

I don't declare myself to be in charge though. I accept everyone then deal with what I hear as a person would in the offline world.
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I guess in doing that the problems a person faces offline can be mirrored here.

I have a viscous temper, though I love people, and I expect that Kay is behaving like my son does. Provoking a reaction.

And just as I haven't a clue how to deal with my son's behaviour, so I haven't a clue how to deal with Kay's either.
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With both Kay and my son I've tried to explain that it isn't kind or fair to upset people but neither have changed their behaviour as a result.

I suppose that reasoning doesn't work with some people. I know a person with Asperger's and their parent told me reasoning with them doesn't work. Because they can't identify with other people.

Perhaps some people just can't imagine how others feel and for that reason don't care at all.
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But you know maybe I need this. My mother said that life shows you the same lessons until you learn.

I find it astonishing that adults want to bully but perhaps it's equally astonishing that I as an adult haven't learned to calmly handle it.

Perhaps Kay and my son are giving me the same lesson and it's an opportunity for me to gain the satisfaction of self development.
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I admit right now I have no clue as to what to do but from fire we are forged.

I'm interested to see how I handle it. I'm not a deliberate sort of a person. I just react naturally.

I expect though over time I'll naturally find my own way of coping with things.