be yourself
I think that my thread is just a replica of a communal meeting place offline.
If you go to a bar there isn't a limit to what you can say or how often you can say it and it's the same here.
Naturally you have to stay within the law and the moderators are the equivalent of the police here.
I don't declare myself to be in charge though. I accept everyone then deal with what I hear as a person would in the offline world.
I have a viscous temper, though I love people, and I expect that Kay is behaving like my son does. Provoking a reaction.
And just as I haven't a clue how to deal with my son's behaviour, so I haven't a clue how to deal with Kay's either.
I suppose that reasoning doesn't work with some people. I know a person with Asperger's and their parent told me reasoning with them doesn't work. Because they can't identify with other people.
Perhaps some people just can't imagine how others feel and for that reason don't care at all.
I find it astonishing that adults want to bully but perhaps it's equally astonishing that I as an adult haven't learned to calmly handle it.
Perhaps Kay and my son are giving me the same lesson and it's an opportunity for me to gain the satisfaction of self development.

Or even expressing an opinion. Why bother discussing it.
It's a vindictive, spiteful coward that isn't worth the attention.