be yourself

There is a thread called women..this norwegian guy wants to date a girl here..

There must be thousands of women in here..

Well you got Carolina Tom...that is one..

My perceived sense, is that, there are several 'tons' of 'single' women, {of All ages}.. Even the desirable younger ones, in 'Europe' & 'N. & S.' America..

.. But, it's the 'men' like myself, who are, and have long been, 'freaked out' by the mere thought of getting 'hitched'..{even unofficially}.. Due, to the seemingly, seen Everywhere, economic uncertainty - And-or, personal 'bleakness' of advancement, & opportunity!

Trivia, fact.. which I saw recently, on the Web. -- Ie., % of those, {of, both sexes}, who are 'living with their parents, 'under 30' in the 'usa' .. It's about, 35%, as I recall.

Man is not made to be alone...Alone is lonely whatever gender...He or she will always seek a partner..It is part of the mental make up..

.. Wow! .. I'm Not exaggerating.. But, from what I know of 'carolina'.. The following 'link'..{from, 2014, I think}, Could be, her Life's biggest challenge ! ..{it even concerns, an unattached, 'Argentine' woman! }

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNLdLKTYNtw

That could be Carolina...Only Carolina is into chemistry...

..Note, to 'Tom'.. Beware, of 'sand' beach cliffs !

.. That is, if you're Not, in a 'chuck-it-all' mood !? ..{E-u-u !}

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-dies-after-cliff-collapses-9621970#rlabs=2%20rt$sitewide%20p$10

I haven t met Lofina yet but I know Carolina...

.. 'Tom'.. Just to say, that 'me thinks' you're Not being consistent _ Eg., If, All is an 'illusion' as you seldom fail to mention .. Why are you in such angst !?

.. Anyway.. A case, Can be made, that you fell-in-love, with a pixelated illusion.. of someone, who is only 'lovable'.. Because, of your Own desperate need, to feel Close, to someone. 

.. Anyway.. All of us mortal folk, will disappoint ! .. As, even I acknowledge.. I regularly disappoint, myself .. Esp., looking back.. which is why, I try to avoid, doing that !

Postscript - Did you consider, that your imagined 'failings'.. might've made, whomever, it may concern, 'Stronger'?! ..{rhetorical}.

What is wrong with Tom again?

.. Not, that 'Magnus'.. isn't someone, with his Own 'attitude' issues ! .. My Lord.. 'Carlsen's, being 'bummed out' about his '2nd place', in the recently concluded 'blitz' tourney.. Even comes across, in his native, Norwegian !  .. You'd think it was something, Really Important ! .. besides, the matter, of his own Ego !

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YP5cUF_kywk

I cant help it but I don t like Magnus Carlsen ED...

He comes over as a spoilt little kid..a child who is spoilt behaves badly if they do not get what they want, because people have always given them everything they want..