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Well, I hate to break it to you, but sometimes people will be hurt, and you won’t always be able to help them. I’m not tryin to be mean or anything but sometimes you need to let people be sad, because it’s not always a bad thing. For example, if someone has lost someone important to them, they will be sad. It won’t help them if you just try and make them happy. You need to give people time to mourn about this kind of thing. Now it’s always good to help people but sometimes helping people doesn’t always mean making them happy.
Apr 23, 2022
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#23
M1m1c15 wrote:
Well, I hate to break it to you, but sometimes people will be hurt, and you won’t always be able to help them. I’m not tryin to be mean or anything but sometimes you need to let people be sad, because it’s not always a bad thing. For example, if someone has lost someone important to them, they will be sad. It won’t help them if you just try and make them happy. You need to give people time to mourn about this kind of thing. Now it’s always good to help people but sometimes helping people doesn’t always mean making them happy.
well, i lost 3 people i loved but i try not to let that get to me and i was adopted and i never knew how to deal with it until i met everyone here that helped me be happy
i used to act like i'm happy but i found out that isn't a good thing because i would cry every night so thats why i want everyone here to try to help
Crying is not a bad thing. You are expressing emotions and that is a very good. You shouldn’t try and push sadness and feelings down, you shouldn’t have to force yourself to be happy. If you Are sad then let yourself be sad and let yourself work it out. That is a good thing. Now it’s great if you actually are truly happy but if not then just know being sad isn’t a bad thing.
Apr 23, 2022
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#25
M1m1c15 wrote:
Crying is not a bad thing. You are expressing emotions and that is a very good. You shouldn’t try and push sadness and feelings down, you shouldn’t have to force yourself to be happy. If you Are sad then let yourself be sad and let yourself work it out. That is a good thing. Now it’s great if you actually are truly happy but if not then just know being sad isn’t a bad thing.
i want to try to help it isn't a bad thing your right but seeing people hurt makes me upset so can u try to help
Apr 23, 2022
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#26
M1m1c15 wrote:
Crying is not a bad thing. You are expressing emotions and that is a very good. You shouldn’t try and push sadness and feelings down, you shouldn’t have to force yourself to be happy. If you Are sad then let yourself be sad and let yourself work it out. That is a good thing. Now it’s great if you actually are truly happy but if not then just know being sad isn’t a bad thing.
Society seems to have a different stance.
That’s kind of selfish. Not to be rude but trying make people be happy when because it makes because it makes you upset is kind of one sided. Now it might be helpful sure. But like I said before I might not help them. And then at that point you are doing it because it’s making you upset and it won’t help them.
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Apr 23, 2022
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#29
M1m1c15 wrote:
That’s kind of selfish. Not to be rude but trying make people be happy when because it makes because it makes you upset is kind of one sided. Now it might be helpful sure. But like I said before I might not help them. And then at that point you are doing it because it’s making you upset and it won’t help them.
You have a point.
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Apr 23, 2022
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#30
M1m1c15 wrote:
That’s kind of selfish. Not to be rude but trying make people be happy when because it makes because it makes you upset is kind of one sided. Now it might be helpful sure. But like I said before I might not help them. And then at that point you are doing it because it’s making you upset and it won’t help them.
we don't have to force it your right but can we try to help at least
Well, that depends how you try and help.
Well how specifically are you gonna help people?
What will you say to them?
What will you say to them?
Apr 23, 2022
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#34
M1m1c15 wrote:
Well how specifically are you gonna help people?
What will you say to them?
What will you say to them?
well...what would u say to them? I want to help people and if u don't want to it's would be fine
I want to help people. But I just want to make sure that the way you’re trying to help people won’t make it worse.
Apr 23, 2022
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#36
M1m1c15 wrote:
I want to help people. But I just want to make sure that the way you’re trying to help people won’t make it worse.
it won't make it worse
Ok, then tell me what you will say.
And like you said, you really don’t know how people feel and how they will react to things.
Apr 23, 2022
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#39
are u trying to prove me wrong? and if they ask for me to stop i will stop
try to comfort people that needs help I'm a lot but everyone here is helping me so please comfort others