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puppydogs1000

I'm 15 going to turn 15 Monday and i want to help people ok thats what i would love to do when i grow up help animals and people and i thought i can help people here first. I have been thought a lot in my life and i just want to help people and make  sure there alright but if they don't want help i won't help them but if they need help and want it will help

puppydogs1000
puppydogs1000 wrote:

I'm 15 going to turn 15 Monday and i want to help people ok thats what i would love to do when i grow up help animals and people and i thought i can help people here first. I have been thought a lot in my life and i just want to help people and make  sure there alright but if they don't want help i won't help them but if they need help and want it will help

i'm turning 16 monday i mean

M1m1c15
That’s good! What I’m trying to say is whether or not to help people, it’s how you help people. That’s what I’m trying To help you understand. Trust me I love helping people. You need to know that sometimes it’s ok for people to be sad and for them to cry and express there emotions. The best way to help someone is to be there for them. You don’t even have to say anything, just a hug or something similiar, or simply being a shoulder to cry on or a face to rant at.
M1m1c15
*is not whether or not to help people, typo
puppydogs1000

well....i want to try thats all  thats why i made this post so people can try to help

RN4L-IZZY

@M1m1c15 

Look, put it this way, you can't always help people, that's a fact, I agree with you on that. 

I also agree with you on the crying part, crying doesn't make you look weak, in reality it shows strength, it shows you care enough to have an emotion,  

 

@puppydogs1000 gotta hand it to you on the "you really don’t know how people feel and how they will react to things."  
Part, gotta hand it to you on that one, everyone is different and sometimes the'll let u help and sometimes they won't. 

M1m1c15
Very good point
M1m1c15
Another tip, if you’re trying to comfort someone who has lost a loved one NEVER say any sentence that starts with the words “at least” or something similar. Sometimes just “ I’m sorry for your loss” and a big hug is what they really need.
puppydogs1000
M1m1c15 wrote:
Another tip, if you’re trying to comfort someone who has lost a loved one NEVER say any sentence that starts with the words “at least” or something similar. Sometimes just “ I’m sorry for your loss” and a big hug is what they really need.

idk if u want to keep this the post is stupid 

puppydogs1000

idk if i want to keep it

M1m1c15
No it’s not, I have lost people and I can tell you from experience, it does not help and it’s insulting in a way. It doesn’t properly honor the person.
puppydogs1000
M1m1c15 wrote:
No it’s not, I have lost people and I can tell you from experience, it does not help and it’s insulting in a way. It doesn’t properly honor the person.

i lost my Aunt and my Grandpa and someone else and then i was adopted and got bullied no one understands so i hate seeing people hurt no one helped me in the past so i want to try to help 

I got pushed in the walls and now i started think maybe i can help

M1m1c15
I’m not saying not to help people but saying saying stuff like “at least they lived a good life” doesn’t help.
RN4L-IZZY
puppydogs1000 wrote:
M1m1c15 wrote:
No it’s not, I have lost people and I can tell you from experience, it does not help and it’s insulting in a way. It doesn’t properly honor the person.

i lost my Aunt and my Grandpa and someone else and then i was adopted and got bullied no one understands so i hate seeing people hurt no one helped me in the past so i want to try to help 

I got pushed in the walls and now i started think maybe i can help

@M1m1c15 put it this way she's had a bad past, and just wants to help everyone she can. she wants to help everyone with everything she can. you got to understand she's came from a bad past, but is trying to prepare a better future for everyone else. 

M1m1c15
You guys are misunderstanding what I’m saying
M1m1c15
I’ve lost people too.
RN4L-IZZY

We all have.

M1m1c15
Not everyone has, and you’re right, most people don’t understand.
RN4L-IZZY

if ima be honest, @puppydogs1000 is a very self-less person, she cares more about everyone else than herself. the only thing I can say is she's gotta big heart.  

 

#^^

M1m1c15
I’m don’t disagreeing about that, that’s a good thing, just make sure you take care about yourself to.