Hey Tom,
What happened to the no-blocking policy?
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Apr 4, 2017
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Hi Vlad.
Okay so I had as you know a be yourself thread and Carolina would come and just light it up with how beautiful she is.
She stopped coming. Then I post a lovely song for her on my music thread and she makes an innocuous comment and is just savaged.
Last night I thought I can't take this anymore. I can't have a thread in my name where I can block and I sit back and watch these beautiful women attacked with no protection. I just can't do it.
So I have two options. I do it this way or I leave.
Okay so I had as you know a be yourself thread and Carolina would come and just light it up with how beautiful she is.
She stopped coming. Then I post a lovely song for her on my music thread and she makes an innocuous comment and is just savaged.
Last night I thought I can't take this anymore. I can't have a thread in my name where I can block and I sit back and watch these beautiful women attacked with no protection. I just can't do it.
So I have two options. I do it this way or I leave.
It's too bad that the behaviour of some has forced you to enforce this blocking policy.
Apr 4, 2017
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If I'm honest I think I'm just being me is a more correct thread title for where I am.
I can say for example that although I value freedom highly I've finally accepted that I need to at times discipline my son.
He'd become very abusive and I realised this total acceptance approach was unworkable.
I can say I don't worry I just be myself. I can't expect anyone else to do anything other.
But I can't say any longer I'll allow people to abuse others here and yet I'll sit back and watch it happen. I just can't.
I either accept my responsibility or I leave my threads. I can't stay without showing the love I talk about.
I can say for example that although I value freedom highly I've finally accepted that I need to at times discipline my son.
He'd become very abusive and I realised this total acceptance approach was unworkable.
I can say I don't worry I just be myself. I can't expect anyone else to do anything other.
But I can't say any longer I'll allow people to abuse others here and yet I'll sit back and watch it happen. I just can't.
I either accept my responsibility or I leave my threads. I can't stay without showing the love I talk about.
TomGa1971 escribió:
So I have two options. I do it this way or I leave.
So I have two options. I do it this way or I leave.
Take the second option.
Apr 4, 2017
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Yeah Vlad it would have been lovely to have had a forum available to all members here to open up.
Carolina said a long time ago that you can't be yourself when other people are abusing you and I've finally accepted that's true for her.
And I love her too much to have her driven away from my thread. I can't accept it.
Carolina said a long time ago that you can't be yourself when other people are abusing you and I've finally accepted that's true for her.
And I love her too much to have her driven away from my thread. I can't accept it.
Apr 4, 2017
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So I'll see how this goes Vlad. It might be that I can't accept blocking anyone, I can't cope isolating people.
I don't know. I've never ever blocked before. I know though I'll never go back to being an op of a no blocking thread again.
If I can't cope I'll leave or write on the threads of other people I know don't mind me being me.
I don't know. I've never ever blocked before. I know though I'll never go back to being an op of a no blocking thread again.
If I can't cope I'll leave or write on the threads of other people I know don't mind me being me.
You love her too much? You don't even know her. Not only you are an attention whore, you are a total creep.
Apr 4, 2017
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I find it just amazing how much I've learned about life and who I am here.
Perhaps though it's something of a sandpit for us to experiment and observe who we are this site.
It's true I guess that we get out what we put in and I've certainly invested here.
And I've had some amazingly beautiful experiences too.
Perhaps though it's something of a sandpit for us to experiment and observe who we are this site.
It's true I guess that we get out what we put in and I've certainly invested here.
And I've had some amazingly beautiful experiences too.
I hope it all works out for you Tom. Your be yourself threads were a gift to the community, a free gift that they just refused to accept.
As always, too many words to say absolutely nothing at all.
Apr 4, 2017
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Thank you Vlad that's beautiful really. But you know I hope many people will come to these threads still and have a beautiful time.
It's easy enough to make a new account and hopefully those that leave because they abuse others will take the shot at redemption a new account brings. Sure we all make mistakes.
It's easy enough to make a new account and hopefully those that leave because they abuse others will take the shot at redemption a new account brings. Sure we all make mistakes.
Apr 4, 2017
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#16
Pashak you say potato and I say potato. You say tomato, and I say tomato. Potato potato tomato tomato.
TomGa1971 wrote:
Pashak you say potato and I say potato. You say tomato, and I say tomato. Potato potato tomato tomato.
You tell him Tom.
Apr 4, 2017
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#18
Love is like an energy. Rushin, rushin inside of me.
The power of love. A force from above. Cleansing my soul.
The power of love. A force from above. Cleansing my soul.
Apr 4, 2017
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#19
Hey Vlad nice to catch you. You're always a perfect gentleman. Your avatar suits you. I love you!
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