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Monet1971
I feel for the people trapped through loving online.

Unable to love offline because their heart is occupied. It's a cruel twist of fate in my opinion.

A trap. Their heart is captured like a butterfly in the palm of a hand.
Monet1971
I forget my point.

Oh can a person that falls in love online fall in love offline whilst continuing that relationship online?

My suspicion is that if there are photos involved no, without photos yes.
Monet1971
I wonder.
Monet1971
I never got a choice about photos. I'll forever wonder what I would have chose.
Lbjon
Attention can fill valleys....
Monet1971
Well the lady I fell in love with isn't 2Q.

Generally speaking though I figure so what?

If I enjoy someone and it's a guy pretending to be a lady I'm still enjoying myself.

It's not as though we need to reproduce. It's all just entertainment right?
Lbjon
I've seen that many times.... Don't even care anymore... I have my sexuality, and I wouldn't want to forfeit it.
Monet1971
Funny Jon I was thinking about attention. I mean I love to know people perhaps ideal women for me love to be known.
Monet1971
Jon what's your opinion? Do you think a single person loving online is precluded from loving offline whilst the relationship continues?
Monet1971
2Q the bond I had was worth the tough times. Life affirming. Amazingly beautiful.
Monet1971
I have to go.

It's not time to make a change. Just relax and take it easy. You're still young that's your fault.
Lbjon
Context aside: I think they aren't mutually exclusive. It's where one puts their love... It could be in more than one place
Pulpofeira

I bet Tom will agree with that.

Lbjon
See if your right:)
Lbjon
You're
Monet1971
I honestly don't know. I suspect Jon is wrong but I don't know.

I appreciate your opinion though Jon and if it's true that you've experienced something that proves that to you then you know.

For me it's a bit like that if you time travel and met yourself you couldn't touch your earlier self.

I find I can't cope loving two women simultaneously. Perhaps that's guilt.

Still what fascinates me is can a person fall in love when they already are?

In the offline world I suppose if we are to disregard context.
Monet1971
I know it's possible to fall in love virtually ie without photos online when in love offline through experience.
Monet1971
Maybe you're saying Jon that if you invest enough time with another lady offline, love will follow regardless of how full you heart is already. Provided she's beautiful naturally.
Monet1971
That reminds me of the idea no matter how loyal a partner you are it's true you've a breaking point and you must guard against temptation.
Pulpofeira

I think is not possible.