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my mom has cancer, or something like that

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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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I'm really scared for her. I'm also a little afraid because it's kind of my fault, since her stress and her bad health appear to be directly linked to my and my sisters' bad behavior. I don't really know what to do. I'm already struggling with. . . not exactly depression, but a lot of sadness and inward negativity since I found out my best friend was moving and that my crush doesn't like me. It's not only me, but my sisters and my dad are also struggling. It just doesn't seem fair that we have to go through this, too.
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BENSON-B00NE
May 16, 2025
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#2

I am sorry. Really. That's tough, but stay strong. Believe.

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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#3

Thanks. I appreciate it.

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BENSON-B00NE
May 16, 2025
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#4

For sure.

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DevinSuckAtChess
May 16, 2025
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#5

I'm sorry to hear about that, I rly hope your family strikes gold in life :]

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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#6

Thanks, Devin

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BasixWhiteBoy
May 16, 2025
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#7

First of all, this isn't your fault.

I hope that your mom ends up ok, and that you feel better soon. I'll be wishing her well.

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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#8

I really hope you're right, #7. Thank you

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BENSON-B00NE
May 16, 2025
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#9

To all the other people going through something like that.

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RealTactics960
May 16, 2025
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#10

Yeah, you can’t blame yourself for something like this.

and I am really sorry for you, I hope she gets better

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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#11

Yeah #9 I really need to get back into the habit of praying...

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1wilo
May 16, 2025
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#12
That sucks, I hope things get better. if you need to vent at all or anything, we’re all here to help.
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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#13

Thanks #10 and 12, I'll try to remember that.

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BENSON-B00NE
May 16, 2025
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#14

What do you mean "something like that"?

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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#15

#13 thanks a lot Saf, I really appreciate your support

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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#16

#15 well, she's not exactly been diagnosed, but she has a sort of pre-cancer thing and it's kind of escalated. . . I don't really know

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LakennkeeperWey
May 16, 2025
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#17
Sorry to hear that, Charmx. I’ll be praying for you.
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tsukiyo7809
May 16, 2025
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#18
i dont mean to lessen your situation at all but im going through something similar..

my mum has me/cfs and life is really stressful lately.. lots of appliances are breaking and need replacing or fixing and my dog has also been sick, which has drained us of money so were really struggling financially at the moment..

i cant lie that my own bad behaviour has made our life worse and i really hate myself for it..

anywho yeah i hope your situation gets better, i can directly relate 🙏🙏
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charm_hyunjiniret
May 16, 2025
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#19

#18 I couldn't ask for more. Thank you.

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uniqlo_wearer
May 16, 2025
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#20
it may have been said already, but it’s not your fault at all. you’re going through a tough time right now, and it’s natural to feel this way. if I have ur permission I could ask a few people to pray for u? I wouldn’t give any information, js like ‘please pray for me friend’s mom’.
I know I’ll be praying for her, and for you. I hope things start to turn around soon for u