Mysterious messages unlocked

I send messages to people and would like to see to whom I sent the messages.

I can only find incoming messages buy not outgoing messages.

When I send a message on e-mail, I always send myself a copy just to be sure that the message has been sent.

Here on chess.com I never know if my message has been sent or received.

Is there a feature or an outbox mail in sending a message that confirms my sent message or is there a place where I can see my sent messages and to whom?

Rickett asked:

 is there a place where I can see my sent messages and to whom?

Yes there is:

Sorry that does not cut it you referred to a site I know and it is the one to send a message not the one that shows me messages sent.

OK....LOL,  Guess you missed the "sent items" right under that big green Compose New Message sign?

Baddogno thank you, I found it, my biggest problem was to first access my message page I always accessed by fluke. I now know that I have to put my mouse over the Home selection on the top bar and select messages.