and you know we are all a little trigger happy here. It's a barroom brawl!
relax and be yourself

Tom, I do not mean to sound rude, but healing will only start when you stop asking questions. There is no room for answers now. That is my opinion.
You will find peace by accepting it, not by looking for it.
This is true. I just went through Tom's first thread on 'what are we'.
Hi Tom, on the very first page, there are answers to your question. But it seems you never accepted anything or even if you did, I think it went in one ear and out the other.
It's been almost a year since you asked that question, you're still struggling and wandering the forums.
Maybe you don't want to accept it, for if you accept you will no longer need forums and you'll no longer get people's attention. Is that what you want? To get people's attention. If so, you've got mine. lol... Cheers!

that said I have faults maybe it's good to hear feedback. I hope postives come through this site. I've had some lovely moments here.