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tomtrytostay
Perhaps why I've struggled for so long is I just don't like the truth. To know I'm meaningless, my life is meaningless, so much so that I don't even truly exist, it's pretty awful.
tomtrytostay
But then there's a ring of truth about it. I have a feeling the truth brings a peace, why should truth bring a struggle?

And I do feel a peace thinking that actually all that's real is nature. Like the Beatles song says, nothing is real, and nothing to get hung about, relax.
tomtrytostay
You know you can't make someone love you but you can relax, and you know maybe just maybe you can relax and they can love you still.
tomtrytostay
Anyway if I want to post something here I will.
tomtrytostay
I'd like to lay down a marker though and say this:

All that's real is nature. All that ever was and ever will be. That's all there is. Natural forces and natural materials.

There is no meaning and no purpose. No evil and no good. It all just is.
Stolen_Authenticity

..One 'clue'.. is that, of All the stories-and-or-videos, of people who have 'fessed up' to a feeling of longstanding, hard-to-ignore.. Life-centered, 'depression,' anxiety, and or 'meaninglessness' ..{as seen on "YouTube" for one}.. Without having 'tallied' the results, of those who Haven't found, some 'Answer' - Versus, those who claim-they-have .. It's probably safe-to-assume 'tom'.. That you're part of the Exceptional-and-minority, 'case' exhibits.. Who admit, to Still, almost literally 'wallowing' in your virtual, 'blinder'- induced, state!

Ie. The 'culture' of Self-induced 'Pity parties'.. fortunately.. Is Not regarded, as a societal norm! .. Much less, in-any-way 'Hip'..{stylish}. -- 'Btw' it's your Own {God-given}, measure, of 'Free- Will'.. {of which there Is a factor to, in Life}; That's causing you, to Not seek 'professional help'!

'For we battle Not, against 'flesh-and-blood' ..but ................." {'Google it'}.. Unless of course, you prefer to 'cover'-your- {proverbial} ears.. And prefer feeling, miserable!? -- The choice, is Yours.  o:

cavetiger
Oink.
mdinnerspace

tomtrytostay wrote:

Any relationship that you have can't be sustained if you can't just be you. Firstly because you have to be able to concentrate on the other person to really be able to connect, secondly because you have to be able to absolutely relax to enjoy yourself and thirdly because sooner or later how you are will become noticeable.Anyway do you want someone to love you for an image you've created?

You are the epitome of hypocricy.

You've created a false image of yourself by using a pic of Jake Gyllenhaal in your profile.

You hide behind denial, you refuse to take responsibility for your actions by claiming free will does not exist. ..

Then you post this crap about what you expect of others??

Hipocricy

mdinnerspace

tomtrytostay wrote:

I'd like to lay down a marker though and say this:All that's real is nature. All that ever was and ever will be. That's all there is. Natural forces and natural materials. There is no meaning and no purpose. No evil and no good. It all just is.

This is the rant of a severely disturbed individual.

No meaning, no purpose, no good or bad. Like I said, he lives in denial, unable to look himself in the mirror, much less face the realities of life.

tomtrytostay
Good morning guys. At the zoo today
tomtrytostay
Md you post big mistake posting here. Like my thread is so worthless you won't bother. But do you stick to what you say?

Anyway the whole point of this thread is relaxing and being yourself.

It just seems the one piece of bullying you can't do is belittle my thread because you're continually here but it doesn't seem that you get that.

tomtrytostay
Perhaps you need to bully. I pity you. Anyway moving on
tomtrytostay
Let's add one to your holy trinity Md.

Tom is
1 gay
2 dumb
3 a coward
4 his thread is worthless.
tomtrytostay
I tell you what, all that may be true but I'm not so pathetic that I spend my day insulting people online. My friend that's truly tragic.
tomtrytostay
Anyway no rules here
tomtrytostay
Right now md I don't want to read you. I'm tired of your vitriol. I suspect you like to feel you're impressing people anyway. And if it's a kick you are getting out of tussling with me I'm sorry but right now I just can't be bothered.
tomtrytostay
SA I don't actually feel miserable upon discovering that life is meaningless truly. I feel..absent.
tomtrytostay
Anyway all are free to just relax and be themselves here including md
tomtrytostay
What does exist? What does? Nature. What's that? Natural forces and materials. Consciousness. A physical body. Does right and wrong exist? Beauty doesn't. Not really. It's all just a pattern combined with love. Truth exists though. How about right and wrong?
tomtrytostay
Just been to a presentation at the zoo . The guy talked about how everything is related. All evolved from the same few initial cells.

He basically said that we aren't separate from the natural world we are part of it.

I hold that to be true. I just think that's profoundly true. That even our thought feeling and behaviour, even that we love, is a part of nature too.