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tomtrytostay
Stayed online doh!
tomtrytostay
Oh my thread is so dead. I guess without wondering there's nothing to add
tomtrytostay
I had a thought!!! A thought I wanted to share.

What if the current senses that we acknowledge and are aware of aren't all that exist within nature?

What if there's actually many many more?!
Stolen_Authenticity

Well..  The 'Andromeda' galaxy, is about '200 million-light-years' away, {and about 3 times bigger than our 'home' galaxy}.. So, mathematically, speaking - Assuming there's 'Life' somewhere among that starry multitude .. There would be {perhaps}, a '3-to-1' ratio, of 'dysfunctional' 'entities'..{people?}, there. - A 'condition' {btw}, that I'm far from being, totally immune from - Is Anyone?! ..lol

 

tomtrytostay
Nice SA. I enjoyed that and I do think life exists on another planet
tomtrytostay
Ha ha. I bet he'd have a kaynight taking the piss too!
tomtrytostay

Stolen_Authenticity

"She's ..{meaning 'Nature'}, an old- fashioned, 3 page, love- letter, that holds timeless love - In-a-world-of frequent, relationship- status, updates."

{slightly modified, from the original quotation}.

tomtrytostay
That's beautiful SA and I know just what that is. Timeless love
Stolen_Authenticity

'Surf' for online quotes, long enough.. and you're bound to find one-or-more - That makes, its' own distinct impression!  o:

tomtrytostay
Ha! Most people aren't like me though SA. I accept I think outside of the box
tomtrytostay
Hey how about I pull up a chair and you can be my therapist for a while?

I'm feeling pretty rough today. Doubting myself and my approach to life. Doubting who I am you know?

I have these moments, it's like I have a fault that runs all the way to my soul and when things aren't going well I think am I bad, am I crazy?

But you know I've looked within believe me I have and I didn't find that at all.

I was thinking of the Maria Carey song hero yesterday and thought of the lyric you don't have to be afraid of what you are.

And you know that's my experience. When I looked within I saw that I loved. I didn't have to fear I'd hurt anyone. I let go you know?
tomtrytostay
I think my lowest moments are when I think everyone would be better off without me. I'm feeling a bit like that this morning actually.

I'm thinking of that movie it's a wonderful life. Don't say it's great. It's bloody depressing. Ha ha. Nice ending though and I love Jimmy Stewart. The Tom Hanks of the past.

I am so thrilled I'm not talking about nature!
tomtrytostay
God I feel I need something to hang on to this morning.
Carla-Magnusson

Tom, whats so bad?

tomtrytostay
It's funny Carla, I was just thinking of you and wishing you were here. I'll post later. Thank you for asking
tomtrytostay
I just hate upsetting people Carla. When I mapped my mind I saw something. This is what I saw.

I can't control whether or not I hurt people accidentally. I can't control whether or not people hurt me accidentally or deliberately. All I can control is whether or not I deliberately hurt people.

I saw that if I relaxed and was myself that I wouldn't try to hurt anyone. That when we are healthy we naturally love.

So the best approach is not to worry!

But I get it wrong and I upset people and in those moments I feel very low.
Stolen_Authenticity

There's More than, a 'kernal' of Truth, in the following.. But, realizing your Great reluctance.. {Not to mention outright opposition}, to taking that 'Leap-of-Faith'.. Until then, There will Always be that periodically reoccurring psychological phenomena, of being 'caught' between the " 'Devil' and, the Deep-blue-Sea"! 

It's Another Truism, that whenever dysfunctional 'conditions' are allowed to 'Drift' Too Long.. 'Radical approaches'.. {as in 'radical surgery'}, are oftentimes required ! o:

Carla-Magnusson

Ok, so you mean you have upset someone? Accidentally?

How would you do that?

Carla-Magnusson

Irritated someone by obsessing about what we are maybe?