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your laughter brings me sunshine. So pretty 

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oh Jon. Check this out!

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I like it but it sure is strange. 

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I havent listend to Miley Cyrus for years.

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Don't really wanna break the record.  No offence.

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wow she has such a drawl right? I like it. She's really attractive. 

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it's really good. I understand though. You made me laugh 

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how has your day been Jon? 

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I talked to a really high up manager. A senior manager. Had my say to him. Once I was so nervous but I can talk to anyone now. We are all just people right? 

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Oh, pretty busy.  Your's?  I have to do the dishes in a bit FYI.

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still sometimes I talk to people and I get so nervous you know? It's so uncomfortable. I guess it's more with people I am not so familiar with. 

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you know I do too! I really do. Yeah my day has been okay thank you. 

I was just going to say love is a two way thing I guess. You care for people and want to spend time with them  but it has to work both ways. 

I'm being very lucky in my marriage though. 

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Here we go again on love.  Dude, it doesn't happen.  Just give it a rest.

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we are two tough  guys right? We have to do the dishes. Like schwarzenegger and stallone

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I still think we oughtta get a dishwasher.

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maybe. 

I'm just talking about conventional friendship actually Jon. I wasn't talking about the love I believe is within us at all. 

I'm just saying sometimes you meet people you'd like to hang out with but the feeling isn't reciprocated. 

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How miserable!
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I'm thinking about something Fh said. He said that show talked about if you aren't loved the right way for long enough as a child you're never going to be able to socialise effectively .

It's tough to think about being condemned to isolation .

I'm reminded of what Ghostess said about having the power to change some things but not others .

I guess perhaps it's about what options we have. For example a very rich person has more options than a very poor person and a person that has been loved and educated has more options than a person that has been neglected and ignored
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I wonder though if contentment is about acceptance rather than having things .

I accept that the only thing I can truly control in terms of social relations is whether or not I deliberately upset people and I never do
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Fh talked about happiness being about having what you want and believe me I'm blessed . I can't help looking at the grass on the other side though .

Still I wouldn't swap with anyone , I'm blessed to know the beautiful people I do