Imagine there are these small particles clumped together and when an object moves it touches these particles causing them to clump to particle and come back and move away when the particle moves away Maby this activation is the curving of space time Maby they have hidden mass that somehow(I have to work on how they get the mass) gets activated this would allow us to consider gravity as a particle and allow us to renormalise Feynman diagrams
But wait if the magnetic is at the lowest when electric is at highest then how would electro magnetism work? Like you know thing attract to other thing when electron Run through thing