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PinkG1rl · 2025-08-18T08:59:27-07:00

so, my bestie is now basically dating her crush now, and i think he's only dating her for the fun of it. and now shes spending less time with me... we're drifting apart, and i've already lost other friends like this... it hurts alot... i tried to tell her, we don't rly know what

Peskybird_flies

8 days ago

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#21

I think u shouldn’t interfere with other people’s relationships
If she is happy, u should be happy
There will always be more friends

PinkG1rl

8 days ago

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#22

Peskybird_flies wrote:

I think u shouldn’t interfere with other people’s relationships
If she is happy, u should be happy
There will always be more friends

i have no idea if she's happy, but her bf's a jerk in my opinion.

NinjaOlive

8 days ago

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#23

Fair fair. My friend was dating someone that made her sad so I told her that he is bad for her and she agreed. So just have a sit down talk invite her to coffee or something and just talk tell her what you feel from the heart. Tell her how their relationship is making you feel and tell her you feel excluded. Of course you don’t have to actually listen to that but you should consider it.

Peskybird_flies

8 days ago

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#24

#22
That’s your opinion tho
If she hasn’t broken anything off yet, then u gotta assume she is happy
It isn’t ur place to try and get inside of that

NinjaOlive

8 days ago

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#25

#24 it is important to take action and tell then how you feel. I get what you’re saying but still…

PinkG1rl

7 days ago

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#26

Peskybird_flies wrote:

#22
That’s your opinion tho
If she hasn’t broken anything off yet, then u gotta assume she is happy
It isn’t ur place to try and get inside of that

but i really think that he's only dating her for the fun of it! you see abt a year ago she told him that she likes him, he'd act really weird abt it. it wasn't until her sister asked his brother to tell him to make an effort. i think he's faking it.

PinkG1rl

7 days ago

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#27

NinjaOlive wrote:

Fair fair. My friend was dating someone that made her sad so I told her that he is bad for her and she agreed. So just have a sit down talk invite her to coffee or something and just talk tell her what you feel from the heart. Tell her how their relationship is making you feel and tell her you feel excluded. Of course you don’t have to actually listen to that but you should consider it.

she's coming over on Saturday. i'm pretty sure i'm gonna cry...

NinjaOlive

7 days ago

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#28

Get your crying out now if you want to be composed unless you want her to visibly see how you feel

PinkG1rl

7 days ago

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#29

NinjaOlive wrote:

Get your crying out now if you want to be composed unless you want her to visibly see how you feel

i've cried abt it countless times... i can't get it all out... i think it'll take a years worth of crying to get it ALL out. i don't really want to cry in front of her because i know it'll make her feel bad. i don't want to manipulate her with my crying.

lyand2025

7 days ago

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#30

No offense but maybe you might be jealous of the Time her and her bf spend together

PinkG1rl

7 days ago

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#31

lyand2025 wrote:

No offense but maybe you might be jealous of the Time her and her bf spend together

mayhaps

PinkG1rl

7 days ago

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#32

but he's such a jerk!

NinjaOlive

7 days ago

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#33

But that’s all right it’s human nature

PinkG1rl

7 days ago

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#34

i really don't think he's good enough for her.

NinjaOlive

7 days ago

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#35

That was for #31 btw

NinjaOlive

7 days ago

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#36

Just state what your feeling and go from there

NinjaOlive

7 days ago

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#37

Just think about i gtg
Gn

lyand2025

7 days ago

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#38

#32 how do you know that

Snowy-Yutyrannus

7 days ago

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#39

If he ends up actually harming your friend, you should probably tell her the changes you see that she doesn’t, as long as she’s happy with her decision then it’s alright

PinkG1rl

6 days ago

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#40

thank you all so much :-)