How did you overcome your insecurites?

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How did your insecurities impact your life?

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I don’t quite have any anymore.
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Someone once asked me what my biggest insecurity was. I thought they were genuinely curious, only later to realize they were just trying to find information to use against me, lol. Funny how people work.
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Jalex13 wrote:
I don’t quite have any anymore.

That's great. We have to learn to embrace our true self. I'm really trying.

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It took me over a year of constant struggle to overcome my insecurities. The main thing is trying to improve what you can, and accepting the things you can’t. If you’d like to get bigger, it will take work but you can lift weights and eat more (and healthily).
Sometimes our insecurities are based off of, not our own flaws but the flawed perceptions of others. Once we can fully accept that, our lives improve.
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Absolutely true. It takes a lot to overcome your insecurities. People will always put you down just because they aren't satisfied with their own lives.

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The final stage, I would say, of my insecurity is others trying to put me down. After I started to gradually feel better about myself, others started noticing it to. Some kind of weird feedback loop. Once you improve, others notice it, and they try to bring you back down. Deep down, I knew that it was out of jealousy or envy, but I still felt hurt. Only when I fully recognized it did it stop affecting me, and I was free of my insecurities. After they realize you don’t accept their negative speech, they leave, and don’t come back. They can’t bare to see anyone doing better than they are. And that’s when you know you’ve won. They somehow non verbally communicate what the real issue was all along.
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Jalex13 wrote:
Someone once asked me what my biggest insecurity was. I thought they were genuinely curious, only later to realize they were just trying to find information to use against me, lol. Funny how people work.

Be very careful about what you tell other

people.If you can.avoid social.networking sites such as Facebook do so..With "friends" on that.who.needs.enemies ?

Internet sites be careful too Anyone can.post a.false profile.of themselves.

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Witkrag wrote:
Jalex13 wrote:
Someone once asked me what my biggest insecurity was. I thought they were genuinely curious, only later to realize they were just trying to find information to use against me, lol. Funny how people work.

Be very careful about what you tell other

people.If you can.avoid social.networking sites such as Facebook do so..With "friends" on that.who.needs.enemies ?

Internet sites be careful too Anyone can.post a.false profile.of themselves.

The objective of this thread is to learn how to overcome your insecurities and share your personal experiences. You can choose not to share if you aren't comfortable with it.

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im insecure about telling others about my insecurities

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mirroredragon wrote:

im insecure about telling others about my insecurities

lol.

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The insecure internet...

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Tell the wrong people your insecurities and they will immediately use it against you. Tell the right people and they will help you.
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I am insecure about losing brain cells to dumb and stupid questions, like yours.

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Ignorance is bliss.
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I’m insecure about blissful ignorance
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I'm insecure about telling people what I'm insecure about

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Rimuru wrote:

I am insecure about losing brain cells to dumb and stupid questions, like yours.

I don't get it. TF is wrong with the question? It's about people who overcame their insecurities and how it impacted their life. There are also so many videos on YT where people talk about their insecurities. It's a topic that should be discussed as it has a huge impact on our lives, specifically teenagers. It's about encouraging self-love and embracing what makes us special. If you don't understand the objective of this forum, you might have think twice before leaving a comment.

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Or you’ll get spammed about something you don’t care about 😂
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