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That is the exact reason why I don’t look for it. For me, if someone asks me out, it’s almost a guaranteed yes, but I don’t think anyone else is that way
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If I’m going to be honest, I’m scared of love
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I don’t look for love (like I’d get a chance to begin with lmao) for the reason that I don’t think I’m mature enough. I’m still a teen and there isn’t really a purpose for it to me at the moment. Like I don’t even have a job what am I supposed to say? “Oh my dear I hope you enjoy the food that I have financed from my monthly pocket money that I get from my parents.” It just isn’t the way I want to do it. I might kinda envy others who have a partner but as said, there isn’t a purpose right now

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But life doesn’t end now. I’m sure we all will have enough time to find the right one

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Well said, Dante
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Thank you, means to cook food, light up dark places and turn things into ash via chemical reaction

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AND YOU CANT DO THAT IN A RELATIONSHIP
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Wdym? The fire in my heart will guide me

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Jk ofc I didn’t quite understand what you meant tho

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Wacky_Woohoo_Pizza_Man wrote:

I don’t look for love (like I’d get a chance to begin with lmao) for the reason that I don’t think I’m mature enough. I’m still a teen and there isn’t really a purpose for it to me at the moment. Like I don’t even have a job what am I supposed to say? “Oh my dear I hope you enjoy the food that I have financed from my monthly pocket money that I get from my parents.” It just isn’t the way I want to do it. I might kinda envy others who have a partner but as said, there isn’t a purpose right now

You do not need to until at least 16. If you’re 13,14, 15, just enjoy your life.

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If I was under the age of 15 I wouldn't take those of my age with a "bf/gf" seriously. I think such relationships would crumble at some point before both parties have reached the age of 18. I've got a classmate with a gf. They've been together for about 9 months. Whilst I dont wish for them or anyone to go through the pain of a breakup, it wouldn't be unexpected if it happens. Most in my class (including me) are 16

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You are right in your thinking. No need to look for love now. Though, on a side note, I do know of an instance where a middle school love actually went to marriage. A relative of mine met her future husband in third grade, started dating in 7th, married 15 years later. Dated through high school and college. Other than that, most of those relationships hardly last a blink of the eye. It’s mostly either for self esteem or a wanting to feel more grown up. Sometimes though it is true love.

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Wacky_Woohoo_Pizza_Man wrote:

If I was under the age of 15 I wouldn't take those of my age with a "bf/gf" seriously. I think such relationships would crumble at some point before both parties have reached the age of 18. I've got a classmate with a gf. They've been together for about 9 months. Whilst I dont wish for them or anyone to go through the pain of a breakup, it wouldn't be unexpected if it happens. Most in my class (including me) are 16

You shouldn’t.

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Children should be children all their children lives, and mature around 18 and start that sense or be even wiser and gain strength, and become like a wonderful inventor as was Nicola Tesla who abstained from those weakening moments, and was on the verge of helping humanity immeasurably with free energy that would've revolutionized civilization to wonderfully staggering proportions, but the crappy dark government wanted his work and so they murdered him by causing illness and stole his work and has caused the most heartache of calamities of every last hurricane the past 30 yrs and many other etcs because their corrupt power with even more technology than his inventions, like HAARP and plan to do a worldwide redflag hologram ran alien invasion to wreak their havoc, like Project Blue Beam goes into, and their corrupt fabricated pandemic was the prep to make society susceptible and fear and control mankind.

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I agree with the children should stay children in their children life part. Which is kinda the reason why I didn't (and still don't) like the amount of "love stories" in many cartoons. They make a false illusion when growing up. I've once seen someone say something along the lines of people not loving their partner for who they are, but for the role they are playing (being the partner) which is where we return to @132J 's part of it mostly happening either due to self esteem or to feel grown up. Now the later part of your writing was 💀

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@TheRealTorchLit bro I understand you! I’m afraid of women!
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I’m not afraid of women, I’m afraid of being in a relationship
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Ok, I may try to avoid interacting with them, but only because they judge men extremely specifically
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I don’t want to be labeled a creep at my age, especially since I haven’t had a single person besides my parents who genuinely loved me
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I have a crush, it’s only normal for my age lmao but aside from that, none