Man, this is deep.
Why I actually don't want chess in correspondence chess

These are good points. I also find that there are a lot of discussion points related to chess, and these can get in the way of threadjacking attempts. I think chess.com should cease focusing on chess altogether.
When I am the one who is losing:
- I don't want my opponent to beat me.
- I can still win/draw on time
When I am the winner:
- Winning a won game is not fun.
- Without chess, there's no conditional moves to avoid chess.