I agree Sara! 
Especially since I do not speak or write in English (though I risk with the help of google)
why to act as if carrying on your head?
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What happened yaar? Why so angry
i am not angry just saying and joking over some people's attitude. but sometimes if some doesn't loggin for months together then at least ok u can delete. otherwise.......deleting just because u don't know someone and his or her back ground seems too much. b'coz here as i have seen in my so far chess.com experience, almost all just (except very few like me r honest:) ) tell lie about their profile or personal information. i am not telling that this is wrong, completely correct. here we need to lie but it was too late by the time i found out this and when all my jenuine personal information was out. may be this kind of attitude is more amongst INDIANS I don't know. but same person entering into friends list in many usernames also i have found out.
here some people act as if they are carrying friends in the friends list on their head. why some people always think that friends need to chat always? it is ok to remove from list if you find someone is hurting you or abusing you, otherwise i think it is nice to have someone in our friends list because we can challenge them to a play if they are online and many more benifits like they will be watching and reading and commenting on your forum topics or endgames.