1. Know that you’re in an orphanage because your parents didn’t want you and abandoned you
(They’re still alive and out there in the world)
2. Know that you’re in an orphanage because your parents died when you were young
(They’re dead but they loved you)
would you rather be an orphan:
1. and know that you’re in an orphanage because your parents didn’t want you and left you there
2. and know that you’re in an orphanage because your parents died when they were young