and also the connection issue is due to chess.com being based in usa(i think, california) and that means the connection is bad because of the physical distance, so that is not the fault of you're opponent
also even if a country has not good connection, the specific player might not
this is judging people by judging a group they fall into, which is called stereotyping
The difference between a forum and a thread A forum is equivalent to a folder which contains a collection of one or more discussion topics. You post to discussion topics and each post within the topic is called a thread.
Sooo...RJC was correct...