Under an old account i went to London for 3 weeks. I had never been there and there is a lot to see. I clearly wrote that i was going on vacation, where i was going, and why. Did that stop people from replying that i was stalling, cheating, trying to drag games out, trying to get people to resign out of frustration? Nope. Personally, I have no issue with the vacation policy. I shouldn't be made to pay for others impatience.
Just my .02
When I agree to a "3 day per move" time control, I'm not agreeing to "3 days give or take 3 months." A time control is a time control. Most of the globe has wifi. The vacation feature is just an excuse to prolong games indefinitely that should have been lost on time. It's frustrating for the opponent, and serves no justifiable benefit for the player using it. Unless you are vacationing in the arctic? In which case too bad for you? Get rid of the vacation feature, please and thanks!