Each post has an, actual, numeric, ID.
Try clicking these links (and observe the editor while you do so):
- http://www.chess.com/forum/view/suggestions/poor-code-long-topics-taking-ages-to-load?quote_id=22382838&lc=1
- http://www.chess.com/forum/view/suggestions/poor-code-long-topics-taking-ages-to-load?quote_id=22382884&lc=1
Suggesting they have just over 22 million posts/comments in their post/comment table.
I don't presume to know what's going on under the hood, but I agree that if designed a page of a one-post thread shouldn't take any longer to load than a page of a 10,000 post thread.