sure. you could direct him to this thread as well :-)
rematch problem solved


Just got reminded of this thread and went back to check on my pal who had a few recent losses. Guess what I found on the wall of those who defeated him/her?
https://www.chess.com/member/neutralchess
Now I don't feel so special anymore
And I thought we had something special.

thanks wanmokewan. even though it hurts to know i am not special in his/her life anymore, i still wish him/her the best :-)

another thread reminded me of this one - looks like my dearest ex-opponent, @geminifactor, has stopped playing since Feb 23. his future opponents have lost the opportunity to receive his heartwarming messages on their wall. Oh well, life goes on ... beside someone told the bunny recently to get a life - working on it.

i can be of assistance bunny,
pm me if you would like nasty messages on your notes page.
(i'm here to help)

anyway this has led to much more fun & interaction on the site. thank you again chess.com.
after the following game
https://www.chess.com/live#g=2453863878
and returning after the white screen of game up, i was greeted with pleasantries from my esteemed opponent. i couldn't thank him on his notes as it was set to private, unsurprisingly.
I take insult in that! Stereotype.