What should be done with creepy stalkers on this site??

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JamieDelarosa

There are too many, and not all of them are men.

Are premium members immune to bans for bad behavior?

The stories I could tell!

vacation4me

Are you sure the ones that aren't men...really aren't?

JamieDelarosa
AaronGo wrote:

Are you sure the ones that aren't men...really aren't?

That's the problem sometimes ;^)

vacation4me
JamieDelarosa wrote:
AaronGo wrote:

Are you sure the ones that aren't men...really aren't?

That's the GD problem sometimes ;^)

You can usually tell the imposters...the pictures are too model like.

JamieDelarosa

There are fakers, that's true.  Who knows why that happens?

But I seen some really disgusting stuff that was posted to friends, and I have had to block a few perverts - they have all been Middle Eastern men.  I mean, the Carmen Miranda avatar didn't even keep them away.  Maybe it is cultural. :-\

vacation4me

...and your current avatar of a Naughty Norse will keep them away?

JamieDelarosa

Case in point: The member here whose "real" name is "james" masturbates while playing against women and tells them he is playing with himself.

His screen name suggests he was born in Scotland about 57 years ago.  How hard up can a guy be to wank himself while playing online chess??

I mean, wow, what garbage can does he live in?


vacation4me
JamieDelarosa wrote:

Case in point: The member here whose "real" name is "james" masturbates while playing against women and tells them he is playing with himself.

 

The funny part is that some of the "women" are really men.

BishopTARDIS

Report and Block.

zborg

Start a thread to show off your new avatar photo ?  Yikes.  You Go Girl.

RonaldJosephCote

              I can threaten to put them on my U-Tube channel if you think that would help??   I'll get reporter rabbit prept to broadcast from the "pervert" desk.

JamieDelarosa
AaronGo wrote:

...and your current avatar of a Naughty Norse will keep them away?

My current avatar is what I use in my invite messages for Valhalla.  Valkyries are, to the best of my knowledge, mythical.  I would hope that guys realize that.

vacation4me
JamieDelarosa wrote:

My current avatar is what I use in my invite messages for Valhalla.  Valkyries are, to the best of my knowledge, mythical.

Aren't most women mythical to men on chess.com?

wanmokewan

In any online community, you're going to get pervs.  Anonymity and no real way to punish will let people revel in their fantasies.  Blocking is the best you can really do.  :\

JamieDelarosa

Yeah, I block the pervs.  One made a new account and used the same pickup lines.  LOLZ

Maybe I should use this as my avatar ...

JamieDelarosa

After the Miss_Sunshine imbroglio, I was even hesitant to post this.  Sunshine got flayed.  It wasn't fair or right.

winerkleiner

Could Chess.com develop a way to "shock" the stalker/abuser for misdeeds?  Meaning send an electrical current to their computer, maybe, lol.

RonaldJosephCote

              I read something interesting in the autobiography of Lee Grant. She's a fabulous actress from the 60's mostly, but she said some of the blame can go to Elizabeth Taylor.  "She fought with passion legitimizing the plague of AIDS, and in so doing, helped to prepare us for gay marriage".

winerkleiner

True even the hosts of game shows don't even react when a man saids he's here with his husband.

SocialPanda
JamieDelarosa wrote:

After the Miss_Sunshine imbroglio, I was even hesitant to post this.  Sunshine got flayed.  It wasn't fair or right.

Sexy_Sunshine was banned for racist comments against Indians.

I consider that right and fair.