It is probably a child molester.
Friend etiquette... To friend or not to friend that is the question?

I'm not a child Age between a father and a grandfather. Like I said the flame is dimming. After 30 years.

In my case, I exchange more messages with Online friends than RL friends. Too busy or the "flame" is dimming. Online friends are fresh friends so enthusiastic. Nobody among RL friends have interest in chess.
Perhaps you should find some real life friends who share an interest in chess. There is no reason not to find a chess club or something where others share the same love for this game. I realize that you may not live near a popular chess club, but ask around senior centers, libraries and even schools - you are bound to find someone. I even went to a high school chess club (my brother attended that school but I didn't) and made friends with the chess teacher). You never know if you don't try.
In my case, I exchange more messages with Online friends than RL friends. Too busy or the "flame" is dimming. Online friends are fresh friends so enthusiastic. Nobody among RL friends have interest in chess.