Thanks for taking time to share your experience. I am grateful to you.
I play flamenco guitar also, and learned long ago that practice takes you only so far; since one inevitably falls into the trap of practicing bad habits: so learning from those who came before you is imperative for cultivation.
So, if I understand correctly, advanced players have memorized a lot of patterns and, in large part, play them accordingly. Metaphorically, that's like playing with words instead of individual letters. Makes sense. I was hoping there exists a step-method to developing memory and visualization of moves in chess. Sigh!
I visualize each move, using internal self-talk, such as, "If I move this here then he can take... and if he takes... then I can.... but then that will have me retreating. After three or four of these mental moves, I forget what pieces were moved that might create new vulnerabilities. So I struggle to lay traps with sacrifices. I'm wondering what others do. Do they have better memories, better ability to hold a mental picture of the game?