When to resign - Etiquette - An honest appeal

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The etiquette of resigning really only makes sense for intermediate and advanced players.  Beginners and novices mostly have not yet learned the skills needed to accurately assess whether or not their game is hopeless.  Many don't even realize that K+R can force mate against a lone K.  And even if beginners correctly understand that their position is lost, they still should not resign because they need to practice defending inferior positions, and they need to learn technique by observing the winning side's moves.  Ask any chess coach.

We see so many of these threads by low rated players demanding that their opponents resign in inferior positions.  I think the reason is mainly psychological.  Everyone wants to feel the respect offered by an opponent when the opponent resigns.  And it is common to the see this at levels above 1600 Elo.  But respect must be earned.  GMs, masters, and experts have earned that respect with their titles and high ratings.  Beginners have not yet earned that respect (although politeness should apply at all levels).  It's somewhat cute when beginners demand respect, in the same way that it's cute when a little boy puts on daddy's shoes and pretends to be grown up.  I say "somewhat cute" because it's also annoying to hear a beginner complain about things they have not had time to learn about through experience.  But it's completely understandable that everyone wants to feel respected.

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Good

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Lmao what a crybaby. It is online chess. If they want to play it out and force an error then let them
Avatar of Pulpofeira

Well, I've read the first post and I honestly think the OP is trolling. Complaining because an opponent didn't lose a lost position. As much as I try to understand it, it's just beyond me.

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Pulpofeira wrote:

Well, I've read the first post and I honestly think the OP is trolling. Complaining because an opponent didn't lose a lost position. As much as I try to understand it, it's just beyond me.

     Yes, Warnaki has started a few similar forums: people insist on launching speculative attacks, people don't play the openings he prefers, people don't resign when he thinks he is winning. Then he boasts about blocking all these "bullying" players.

     It doesn't matter if he pouts about people not respecting his "superior" standards of play, or if he blocks them when they don't. Arguing endlessly that he is right, others ought to follow his example, and those who disagree with him are too stupid, foolish or stubborn to "see the light" just marks him as an annoying troll.

 

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I see.

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ajl721x wrote:

This is one of the dumbest fourms I've ever seen. Your opponent has the choice to resign or not in a losing position. Never assume that you'll always get away with finishing a game in a winning position. If the position is R+K vs K and you are forced to win, you NEED to know that for example.

+1

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Honestly I understand the frustration but it actually helps you in chess because it helps you learn how to convert positions.

Avatar of Haoleyi

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Avatar of Sillis83

I would never resign against some 1100-rated player. Because that is too close to my own rating and I suck at chess and can blunder a queen at any minute. It's never over until it's over.

If I play a 2200-rated player in a tournament on the other hand I will throw in the towel a lot sooner. Different level.

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the worst thing is playing daily games with a winning end game with Mate in 10 moves. your opponent insists on making one move every 24 hrs. 11 days later you get the obvious victory.

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BaronHector wrote:

the worst thing is playing daily games with a winning end game with Mate in 10 moves. your opponent insists on making one move every 24 hrs. 11 days later you get the obvious victory.

11 days is close to nothing when you play a daily game. The game is supposed to last for months.

By the way, this is an old topic, resurrected by a notorious spammer (ariajune), possibly a spambot.

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ariajune wrote:
magipi wrote:
BaronHector wrote:

the worst thing is playing daily games with a winning end game with Mate in 10 moves. your opponent insists on making one move every 24 hrs. 11 days later you get the obvious victory.

11 days is close to nothing when you play a daily game. The game is supposed to last for months.

By the way, this is an old topic, resurrected by a notorious spammer (ariajune), possibly a spambot.

yes pls just watch ur stupid mouth

He's not wrong . You bumped the thread by posting an irrelevant chess position which I am sure nobody cared to look at .

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Don wrote:

I do not resign. WE GOT TO FIGHT UNTIL WE DROP!!!!!!!!!!

Bruh you literally resigned on your last game you lost