First Date Question

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xman720

Say you are on a first date, and want to learn as much about the other person as fast as possible.

Here is one simple question to determine more than any other:

"If I were to play e4, how would you respond?"

huh?/I don't get it/I don't understand

Not worth dating. Pick a real boyfriend/girlfriend.

I don't play chess

As far as normal people go... this one might not be bad.

King's Pawn Game

Boring. You'll be done with this person in 6 months, save yourself the time.

Sicillian Dragon

This person likes jumping onto bandwagons... and doesn't really have a personality of his own.

Sicillian Sheviningan

This person likes saying the word "Sheviningan". He probably doesn't know what the actual move order is.

Sicillian Yugoslav attack

It is not a good idea to date someone who plays hope chess.

Sicillian Nadorjf

This person likes Tal and Fischer- Gold pick!

French defense

This person is a jerk. Leave the date immediately.

Pirc defense

A good pick if you're into someone who just rolls over to your demands and does whatever you tell them.

Modern defense

Only a good pick if you like paintings of paint splattered on canvasas and flautists who whistle through their flutes.

Scandinavian defense


Probably a good person to date!

However, not good at chess.

Caro-kann

This person loves chess more than you. Only a good choice if you're into that sort of thing.

Duras Gambit 

Kiss him/her, right now. Do it, no hesitation.

Them tell them that is the equivilient of what they are doing over the chess board and leave the date.

Alekhine Defense

This person is gay. You should be worried if you are on a date with someone of the same sex and they give an answer other than this.

Barnes Defense

Tell them kudos that they know the name of the defense, but that it's still not a real defense and then leave the date.

Borg defense

Ask them.

"What's your plan. I mean, actually? What is your actual plan?"

Both in real life and over the chess board, they live one move at a time.

Goldsmith defense

The only person who plays this opening is Rush Limbaugh... what are you doing on a date with Rush Limbaugh?

Ware defense

This person likes Bernie Sanders, or is from Sweden.

St. George Defense

This person is a democrat. Demand an answer to the question of why they did not secularize the name of the opening.

Carr Defense

This person sucks at chess, but on the upside would not vote for Bernie Sanders.

Nimzowitch Defense

If you are at dinner, refuse to order. Simply keep waiting and waiting and not making up your mind. After your date gets frustrated, tell them this is the equivilent of what they are doing over the chessboard and leave.

Hippopotamus defense

This person is OCD.

 Lemming Defense

This person is a hipster. Steer clear.

PS: Thread title click bait works every time

ClutchCity

This thread screams iout loud...and it's not a good word.

BlargDragon

"Flip the board and challenge you to a duel instead."

We establish a common law marriage by consummating it right there and then on the restaurant table for everyone to witness.

Jenium

I wouldn't date a person who thinks the Yugoslav attack is an opening choice for Black.