I don't really get your deal, kid. Why do you hate trading queens? Like, what the heck is actually wrong with trading queens? If you're playing like normal and continuing with your plan and he goes out of his way to trade queens, just trade queens with him, you will have developed your pieces and stuff while he has accomplished little to nothing
WELL, I've seen it before and it's not a big deal for me, but he doing it EVERYTIME annoys me.
What do you work in Diakonia?
Lets say it involves fingerprints.
Hacking?
Most works I can think off do not involve your boss running around the office checking if you are working or on chess.com lol.
We have a very lenient work environment :-)