wormstar wrote:
diskamyl wrote:
... But having absolutely no interest? Why?
bunch of borderline mental, sweaty, overweight, middleaged guys in a room, smoking, mostly drunk (in other words, guys like me, minus the smoking). somehow I fail to see the attraction.
and it's not that I didn't drink a lot myself, or that I cared about anyone's weight, but you know, I can't really see any reason why I wanted to be there. to discuss chess? I do that all day already. to study? I never was one for the group things. to socialize? I prefer to do that with close friends, none of whom share my addiction (not that I didn't try to infect them, but they're simply not interested, I'm sure we all know how that goes).
Stereotypes don't go far. It depends where you go but I've yet to play anywhere like that. The people are all different and the age range is extremely varied. While it's true that the average age in most OTB clubs is probably 30-40, the tournaments in my area bring it down to about 15-20. In any case, chess transcends age and I don't see why this matters. Except for the prevalence of males, your other characterizations are equally foreign in my experience.
For me, socializing with a lot of interesting people is only a small part of the attraction. Mainly, it's the fact that I will be surrounded by people who love chess and take it seriously. Most of my other friends don't have a clue about chess and I can't share this passion with them. Moreover, this is real chess that makes me proud and may lead to officially recognized achievements like an Expert title. On the other hand, while online chess is fun and excellent training, it is not worth much as a representation of chess ability. There are hundreds of online chess websites with their own player pools, rating formulas and policies. In fact, when I was playing on uChess, I played White in virtually every game and canceled games if they were in openings I wasn't studying at the time or against opponents I had trouble with. Additionally, cheating is a problem and that's part of the reason why online chess is so skewed towards blitz (which is also not much of a measuring stick of chess ability). Finally, online chess is just far less competitive. For all I know, when I'm at peak alertness and concentration, I'm playing some guy in his underwear at 3:00 am in Poland while he's watching TV or browsing the web. I've actually been that guy sometimes. :p It's like the difference between playing basketball in your backyard and playing it on your school or college team (or online friends and real friends). I don't put much stock in an online rating. The player has to prove himself OTB. I wonder how seriously we would take Anand if he only played online. :P However, even if it weren't for this, OTB provides the most difficult, intense and rewarding chess struggle. Win or lose, it's the most fun I get from chess. While it's your choice, I hope you will change your mind. You're missing out on most of what chess offers if you don't play in OTB tournaments and clubs.
BTW: Online chess has its place too; I'm here after all. Most OTB players I know also play online. For example, I know a Class A player that just plays blitz and always tries different openings online. However, it is never taken in the same light as a standard rated OTB game.
diskamyl wrote:
That made me laugh. OK I see, but you could participate in tournaments perhaps? I think you should have reasonable chances of winning some?
hard to say. well, of course I might win one coming in underrated, but it would take some time getting used to real pieces & live pressure. the pressure I think I could handle though, as I usually do very well in pressure. but it would probably take a few months before I could give my best.
I've played some drunken otb games with friends (1600-1800), and even though it wasn't a total disaster, it was pretty hard to see the board properly. it would definitely take some time to get used to a 3d board, and I really don't have any urge to do that.