Chess is damaging my mental health.

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MochaWave

I keep losing.

I never improve.

Nothing I do makes me better.

I WANT to be good at chess.

I just can't.

MochaWave

It's not just that easy.

Cherry-Blossom46

your better then me

sawdof
Wimpydog44 wrote:

Chess is damaging my mental health.

I keep losing.

I never improve.

Nothing I do makes me better.

I WANT to be good at chess.

I just can't.

https://www.chess.com/forum/view/community/im-about-to-quit

https://www.chess.com/forum/view/for-beginners/will-i-ever-be-good

https://www.chess.com/forum/view/for-beginners/i-keep-losing-and-im-rapidly-losing-motivation

https://www.chess.com/forum/view/for-beginners/why-do-i-still-suck

You do whine quite a bit.

Your profile says "I'll never be good at chess". If you don't believe in yourself, who will?

You seem to feel entitled to be good at anything you set your mind to and quickly too. A change of attitude might be the first step.

sawdof

Should have just posted boohoo, I know ...

Xavier9369

Hello

MochaWave
Xavier9369 wrote:

Hello

Hey!

Cherry-Blossom46

hello

Xavier9369

Don't be bad with yourself friend, just keep trying. But with a different perspective, see me like a person that is talented naturally is wrong, I passed through a worst way than you are crossing now. I get off from chess.com like 3 times cuz I get frustrated everything I didn't see fruition of my effort

Xavier9369

The 3 times I needed to be here right now teach me that is okey to fail, but if you fail in the same errors you are doing it bad

Xavier9369

So, change of focus and learn from your errors and make them worth to progress in your way

Cherry-Blossom46

that's encouraging considering I have not one a single game I've played on here

Xavier9369

That's it. And if you need a break of chess, is okey, no problem.

Cherry-Blossom46

*won*

Xavier9369

What a cute pie of Sister you have her, @Wimpydog44

insane

Stop whining and work

Cherry-Blossom46

he complained and got advice not he complained got advice and then kept complaining.

plus, I doubt you even know Wimpydog44 so don't judge them.

Cherry-Blossom46

I'm talking to you jli30c.

P.S. I'm sorry if I sound rude but WimpyDog44 is my brother.

camden6172013
Real I’m losing my sanity trying to get good
Cherry-Blossom46

camden6172013, I just started and I have not one a single battle