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ForsakeMe2

I don't know where to start, but aright. Yesterday my mom had a call from university, where they told her that i got expelled from the university. And i got really consfussed, like why they notificated her only just by now. When i stopped visiting university 2 years ago when i was a 3 year student of economics/finance faculty. Yes, none knew about that, but myself. And you probably got some questions like, why did i dropped outta school?(when i had only 1 year before i get my dimploma). The answer was simple, university just pissed me off, I never was a snitch, i will never do things which i don't like to do, i won't lick someone's ass for some usseles pice of paper( diploma). And, moreover, people in there were boring as hell, those people weren't bad or rotten, they were just boring, sad vegetables. All topics you could disscuss with them were limited with (girls, alchool and sport) nothing more, there were no extraordinary funny people with sense of humor. So, that was 5th semester and i was having some class releated to finance/economics, and after that class i just run away from school to home, and never come back to university again. Everyday which i was in university was a hell for me, i sincerely hated it. i wanted to transfer to another university, but my parents inisited in finishing the current one(cuz it was more prestigious, etc). So, i shoulda stayed there for 2 more years, unless i got on 3rd year. I was barely visting lessons and exams, cuz i didn't give a crap about grades, or whether i pass it or not. I spent there nothing less but 3 years  and i haven't learnt anything useful there, what can help me succed in real life, so what it gives? Uselles subjects, where they try to force you to stick to whats written in books. Like read 1000 books and u get smart - No.thnx! I would rather be smart person without diploma, than stupid garbage with diploma. Yes, my parents were mad at me, they were really dissapointed, but they told me you're not a dumb, and u won't do anything that will harm you. So only you decide how live is right. Now, some might say u wasted lots of money for nothing. Yes in some degree, but i could have spent much more, if i continued that studying. Now, i play chess whenver i want, i have a part time work(freelancer). And i am happy! So, all those people who say diploma is everything are either lying or too dumb to reazlie the truth. Guys, be crazy, be thirsty. Only crazy acts like what i did can radically change your life to better or worse.

oneshotveth

aright, consfussed, notificated, ussles. I just run away, Uselles, you decide how live is right.  Shocked to learn you don't care about education...

u0110001101101000

I let my tape rock till my tape pop,
Now I'm in the lime light cuz I rhyme tight

ForsakeMe2
jengaias wrote:

If you were doing something you didn't like , you weren't going to succeed in it anyway.

I abandoned Law school at the 3rd year too , against my parents wishes but I didn't do it because everyone was boring.I did it because I decided I didn't want to be a lawyer.And after abandoned Law school I got a work and then went to a school for video editing which was my dream since I was in high school.

My point is , you did well for leaving University if you didn't like it but what's Plan B?

Are you planning on working part time and play chess all your life?

Well, i was planning on come up with some a business idea, untill that i will just keep doing what makes me happy. But who knows what happens in future,  "want to make god laugh tell him your plans" .

gerberk

There was always a plan B or even plan C I agree there.

Fine post there.

gerberk

The best things in life... they don t teach you at school.

gerberk

I went to the school of life.

u0110001101101000

 There are tons of stories like this honestly. Lots from people who finished their degree too. At the end of their studies they weren't interested in it (or the jobs they could get) anymore, so they do something completely different.

ImmaLetchuFinnish
ForsakeMe2 wrote:

I don't know where to start, but aright. Yesterday my mom had a call from university, where they told her that i got expelled from the university. And i got really consfussed, like why they notificated her only just by now. When i stopped visiting university 2 years ago when i was a 3 year student of economics/finance faculty. Yes, none knew about that, but myself. And you probably got some questions like, why did i dropped outta school?(when i had only 1 year before i get my dimploma). The answer was simple, university just pissed me off, I never was a snitch, i will never do things which i don't like to do, i won't lick someone's ass for some usseles pice of paper( diploma). And, moreover, people in there were boring as hell, those people weren't bad or rotten, they were just boring, sad vegetables. All topics you could disscuss with them were limited with (girls, alchool and sport) nothing more, there were no extraordinary funny people with sense of humor. So, that was 5th semester and i was having some class releated to finance/economics, and after that class i just run away from school to home, and never come back to university again. Everyday which i was in university was a hell for me, i sincerely hated it. i wanted to transfer to another university, but my parents inisited in finishing the current one(cuz it was more prestigious, etc). So, i shoulda stayed there for 2 more years, unless i got on 3rd year. I was barely visting lessons and exams, cuz i didn't give a crap about grades, or whether i pass it or not. I spent there nothing less but 3 years  and i haven't learnt anything useful there, what can help me succed in real life, so what it gives? Uselles subjects, where they try to force you to stick to whats written in books. Like read 1000 books and u get smart - No.thnx! I would rather be smart person without diploma, than stupid garbage with diploma. Yes, my parents were mad at me, they were really dissapointed, but they told me you're not a dumb, and u won't do anything that will harm you. So only you decide how live is right. Now, some might say u wasted lots of money for nothing. Yes in some degree, but i could have spent much more, if i continued that studying. Now, i play chess whenver i want, i have a part time work(freelancer). And i am happy! So, all those people who say diploma is everything are either lying or too dumb to reazlie the truth. Guys, be crazy, be thirsty. Only crazy acts like what i did can radically change your life to better or worse.

I am reminded of a couple verses. Food for thought for the OP:

 

A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. - Proverbs 18:2

 

There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death. - Proverbs 14:12

 

Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” - Ephesians 6:2-3

 

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction - Proverbs 1:7

 

I advise you to apologize to your parents and to reconsider your current life situation. I mean this kindly and sincerely, without guile. I hope you take this advice though, If you choose not to, consider the end of the final verse I posted. Take care.

ImmaLetchuFinnish
kaynight wrote:

Don't forget: Blessed are the meek, as they will be trampled underfoot on chess.com.

 

The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe. - Proverbs 29:24

 

The OP felt compelled to share publicly and acted on that feeling. Reading it made me realize someone should kindly show him his need to realize he is hurting those around him and, ultimately, himself. So I did. And not with any guile attached to it. I sincerely hope they take the advice given them and turn towards life, lest they continue on towards death.

ImmaLetchuFinnish
Don_frye1 wrote:

But you gave no advice. The person who wrote what you pasted did.

 

That's the beauty of the Bible. It is a fountain of wisdom and knowledge. I am glad that the original writers wrote what they did and I gladly quote them for they are wiser than I, yet by applying what they say, as the word says:

"I have more understanding than all my teachers,

for your testimonies are my meditation. I understand more than the aged,
for I keep your precepts." - Proverbs 119:99-100

 

Why not read, and apply what it says for yourself and "Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in him." - Psalm 34:8

 

Start with the stories of Jesus, in the Book of John. Have a great day and take care

billyblatt
kaynight wrote:

I find the Gideon bible left in hotel rooms, most enlightening. It burns for hours and gives off a comfortable heat.

that was so funny. you must be standing up

ImmaLetchuFinnish

 

"Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you." - Jesus Christ from Matthew 5:11-12

WeAreCarvedOutOfLove
ImmaLetchuFinnish wrote:
ForsakeMe2 wrote:

I don't know where to start, but aright. Yesterday my mom had a call from university, where they told her that i got expelled from the university. And i got really consfussed, like why they notificated her only just by now. When i stopped visiting university 2 years ago when i was a 3 year student of economics/finance faculty. Yes, none knew about that, but myself. And you probably got some questions like, why did i dropped outta school?(when i had only 1 year before i get my dimploma). The answer was simple, university just pissed me off, I never was a snitch, i will never do things which i don't like to do, i won't lick someone's ass for some usseles pice of paper( diploma). And, moreover, people in there were boring as hell, those people weren't bad or rotten, they were just boring, sad vegetables. All topics you could disscuss with them were limited with (girls, alchool and sport) nothing more, there were no extraordinary funny people with sense of humor. So, that was 5th semester and i was having some class releated to finance/economics, and after that class i just run away from school to home, and never come back to university again. Everyday which i was in university was a hell for me, i sincerely hated it. i wanted to transfer to another university, but my parents inisited in finishing the current one(cuz it was more prestigious, etc). So, i shoulda stayed there for 2 more years, unless i got on 3rd year. I was barely visting lessons and exams, cuz i didn't give a crap about grades, or whether i pass it or not. I spent there nothing less but 3 years  and i haven't learnt anything useful there, what can help me succed in real life, so what it gives? Uselles subjects, where they try to force you to stick to whats written in books. Like read 1000 books and u get smart - No.thnx! I would rather be smart person without diploma, than stupid garbage with diploma. Yes, my parents were mad at me, they were really dissapointed, but they told me you're not a dumb, and u won't do anything that will harm you. So only you decide how live is right. Now, some might say u wasted lots of money for nothing. Yes in some degree, but i could have spent much more, if i continued that studying. Now, i play chess whenver i want, i have a part time work(freelancer). And i am happy! So, all those people who say diploma is everything are either lying or too dumb to reazlie the truth. Guys, be crazy, be thirsty. Only crazy acts like what i did can radically change your life to better or worse.

I am reminded of a couple verses. Food for thought for the OP:

 

A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. - Proverbs 18:2

 

There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death. - Proverbs 14:12

 

Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” - Ephesians 6:2-3

 

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction - Proverbs 1:7

 

I advise you to apologize to your parents and to reconsider your current life situation. I mean this kindly and sincerely, without guile. I hope you take this advice though, If you choose not to, consider the end of the final verse I posted. Take care.

Brother, I do not agree with you! :) Doesn't love always leave a choice? If his parents insisted he would attend a certain school, I am sure they meant it well and wanted the best for him, but... it didn't leave him a choice!

@Forsakeme2 (strange but interesting name btw) You are beautiful nomather what. You have the right to live, whether you will gain a lot of wealth or not, many women or not, much power, or not, any diploma or none. I hope you will find that what you really think is interesting. I think your revalations are not meant for many... You are longing for meaning. Let's start by loving yourself (let no'one judge you for what you do or didn't do, have or do not have) and do really believe you are good enough even without the things most people think is important. Almost every great thinker in history dared to think different and not just follow the steam. You are beautiful bro! Love yourself and love others. Wish others the best.. wish yourself the best. A thinker like you should also have lots of hidden creativity in him... Think about how we can make this world a better place and about your role. :)

ArgoNavis

The title is misleading. This thread has nothing to do with chess.

That makes it the prototypical chess.com thread.

ForsakeMe2

kaynight wrote:

Praise The Lord!!

Idd

WalangAlam

obviously you lack courage. Why did you waste your parents money? You could just told them you want to stop going to University and face the consequences, the same thing that is happening right now. Whatever your reason is that is not a ground to waste hard earned money. However with all that under the bridge, you should apologize to them and go on with your life. 

gerberk

What line of work are you in Don?

gerberk

I was decorated by her majesty the queen if you believe it.

 

 

gerberk

yes