I hate any variation of regular chess, even if it is to my advantage I would like to stick with what we have.
Fair enough. However, in a game between two very poorly matched players, the outcome is always going to be predetermined - unless the stronger player plays with less effort - which is already a variation of sorts. By balancing the odds at the outset (in an analagous way to giving a younger, slower runner a head start), both players can then play at maximum intensity, which is closer to the essence of chess.

The most common odds I've played (a piece often too much) is pawn and move. This usually means that the better player has Black and his f pawn removed.
Additionally, when playing piece/rook/queen odds, the odds giver plays white and usually has the moves a3 and h3 already played. The idea of this is to prevent the odds receiver playing for simplification to a won endgame, they are forced to play a whole game.