OK, you've proved your point. But imo, I still do believe openings have an impact, on the game, even if its little.
I would say you are correct to a certain extent. If someone has gone to the trouble to know....and I mean really know an opening, all its lines, all its variations, and all of its sub-variations. Ok...we know that isn't gong to happen unless you're a GM. What people do is memorize moves with no basic understanding of the "why" behind those moves. And when the opponent doesnt play a "book" move all your "preparation" goes out the window. I peaked as a A player and never lost a game due to openings. I know people that are Expert class player and they say that even at that level, blunders and missed tactics decide their games.
But if people want to waste time on openings that is their choice. Just dont be surprised when your improvement goes slowly.
Now if you find openings you like to play. And that should be based on nothing but getting to middle games you're comfortable playing. And not because your favorite GM plays them or because you think they are "aggressive" or "tactical". All you need to have is a basic understanding of "why" the pieces and pawns go where they go.
Blindly memorizing moves without understanding the "why" behind the moves does nothing to improve your chess game.
Just my .02
OK, you've proved your point. But imo, I still do believe openings have an impact, on the game, even if its little.