In which case, we see it differently, don't we? Anything I wouldn't play because it's patently bad is to me, refuted. Why does have refuted have to mean "shown to be lost"?
Because that's what it means. It's the perfect tense of "to refute". For a line to be refuted, someone in the past must have gone and found a refutation.
Why can't you just call a line like that "patently bad", or "something I clearly wouldn't ever play", "unplayable", or perhaps just some made up word that didn't have a perfectly good meaning yet? :-)


In which case, we see it differently, don't we? Anything I wouldn't play because it's patently bad is to me, refuted. Why does have refuted have to mean "shown to be lost"? Why not "shown to be bad"? I'll show that my line there is bad - he should play 1.d4, 2.c4 and save two tempi. It is clearly bad.