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Stockfish (3390) > Silman (2383)
Not that it matters much: those positions are completely equal.
By the way your move order to reach that position is questionable: 4...Nxe4!
Here is a better move order.
Note white refrained from Nc3 and preferred c3 instead.
They prepared with much more powerful cloud engines.
https://www.chessgames.com/perl/chessgame?gid=2136417
However Stockfish computes 7...Bxe3 to be the best move for black, with 7...Bg4 second best 7...Bb6 further down the pecking order.
Is Silman's advice still valid or good here? I have looked at the opening stats and seen that at the amateur level, white wins more often after 7...Bxe3 and less often after 7...Bb6
At the master level it is usually a draw after 7...Bxe3 and black often wins after 7...Bb6