Lala, your angst is unwarranted. I forgive you for your sinful besmirchment of me and my fine character. Go in peace.
Why are women not as successful as men in chess?

There are more female waitresses? Who would have guessed?
Kind of spoiled the effect of an otherwise good post.
Don't get "smart" with me...you know perfectly well that the intent was waitresses vs. waiters. Besides, the current pc is "wait person"...that's the term I should have used, I suppose.
I think "server" is also commonly used these days. But that sounds too servile. We must come up with a better word. Food and beverage purveyor...FBP, for short?

Where...in...the...he!!...have you been - Mighty Mouse ?
Duh? I've previously asked you to come visit me on my thread. I have but one. I don't like to sling hash all over the map as do some people I know.

Unwarranted ?....from the abuse I've taken from you on the "BF Creative Lack" spool ?....and the above berating is as much in defence of your precious daughters as it is to "balance" what's between us....so there !

Where...in...the...he!!...have you been - Mighty Mouse ?
Duh? I've previously asked you to come visit me on my thread. I have but one. I don't like to sling hash all over the map as do some people I know.
I'm not gonna chase you a'O to harrass you....this was happenstance.
But, now that I found you out & about here ?....and without bells on your toes to warn us ?
I'm gonna fill your left ear - since your right one has an atrophied brain behind it !

Yeah...yeah...yeah, get over yourself. But please do come and visit me. You can harangue me over there to your heart's content.

There are more female waitresses? Who would have guessed?
Kind of spoiled the effect of an otherwise good post.
Don't get "smart" with me...you know perfectly well that the intent was waitresses vs. waiters. Besides, the current pc is "wait person"...that's the term I should have used, I suppose.
Oh, so you are giving us one more reminder how men overpopulate better paid construction, IT and engineering sectors, leaving women with less paid shitty jobs at nursing and administrative sectors? Thanks for a nice reminder, how "nice" of a job is to wear mini skirts at job and smile to some stupid boss or a sexist client, just to earn money for the living? This would never be a work of a choice for any women, had we had better choices, but we live in a man-ruled-man-rules world, so we have to adapt to it. While for CEO positions women often lack self-confidence, not the skill.

killer instinct! sliding bits of wood around on a square board! come on!
Yes, chess is a war game. It is pshychological war between 2 opponents, while using chess set rules as a tool for this war.
I've read, Botvinnik highly emphasised the importance of crushing opponent's will at the chess game to his pupils. Emanuel Lasker was doing the same - playing against his opponent psychologically before everything else (studying his opponent's playstyle and psychology and then choosing inconvenient positions to play against them).
It doesn't really mean an aggression, but strong psychology is a requirement to play chess at a high level.

To play chess with a female is about the mind game outside the board. For example, I once asked a woman if she knew about a weird chess rule that I completely made up, and she obviously said no. Then I didn't say anything but I showed her through my facial expression that I was very disappointed with her lack of chess knowledge. She resigned a few moves later. So if you can convince them that they deserve to lose then they will help you win. But first you have to make them respect you.
shame on you, for cheating girls that are obviously clearly newcommers to chess:) I would like to see that working on girls, who have trained a bit longer to actually know what they are doing on chess board:)

Aikki wrote: "Oh, so you are giving us one more reminder how men overpopulate better paid construction, IT and engineering sectors, leaving women with less paid shitty jobs at nursing and administrative sectors? Thanks for a nice reminder...blah, blah, blah."
Hey, I refuse to be your whipping boy for your feminist agenda. I have a wife of 50 years, daughters and grandaughters. I have done more for them than your angry rhetoric. You are trying to use my words for nothing I intended. Get a life.

Aikki wrote: "Oh, so you are giving us one more reminder how men overpopulate better paid construction, IT and engineering sectors, leaving women with less paid shitty jobs at nursing and administrative sectors? Thanks for a nice reminder...blah, blah, blah."
Hey, I refuse to be your whipping boy for your feminist agenda. I have a wife of 50 years, daughters and grandaughters. I have done more for them than your angry rhetoric. You are trying to use my words for nothing I intended. Get a life.
In fact, I am not a feminist. I only dislike you insulting women, but I guess you have already enough women in your life so you have enough women to insult in real life, why continue here in forums? Otherwise, you have picked the wrong words to show your intentions

The answer is more simple than all that and has nothing to do with character. Historically women weren't taught chess. It's just plain numbers. Black people also aren't represented in chess, again, historically not taught (in America) or not in the culture (again, in America.) If you argue that women and people of color have an innate difference in the way they think, that's just ridiculous.

9 year old girl destroys mental calculation TV contest in Asia (warning: not for faint hearted audience)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gctj5GqRBu4

This kind of thread...about the millionth on the same topic, over the years...is rather pointless. It is an attempt to comprehend why chess seems to be of gender specific in nature.
If x children were exposed to chess at an early age and trained properly, could they perform as well as y children?
All I can say is that some children take to chess like a "duck to water". Others would rather eat raw sewage than play chess.
Tell you what, all you armchair gender-interested people...have your own kids. Teach them chess (probably best to hire a coach because they would otherwise have a patzer teaching them). Come back in 10 or 20 years and "report in".
I can give you my report. My kids all left home between 25 and 30 years ago. Not one of them (three daughters) has touched a chess piece since.
Now, if you will all do your part in instilling chess in your own kids and report back as I have, then maybe we can have a worthwhile conversation. I am only taking a guess here, but my guess is that at least 90% of the kids will not take a long term interest in chess.
Why such a guess? Look at the people all around us, men as well as women, who would rather go to a dentist than play chess. Eh? More chess for the rest of us.

You are just a malcontent looking for a fight. The women in my life have been very well treated by me and they dearly love and respect me. Nor have I said a word in any of my posts demeaning women or their capabilities.
Your saying otherwise tells me that you are just a, well, Elvis said it best: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1QRTHHlJ-I

You are just a malcontent looking for a fight. The women in my life have been very well treated by me and they dearly love and respect me. Nor have I said a word in any of my posts demeaning women or their capabilities.
Your saying otherwise tells me that you are just a, well, Elvis said it best: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1QRTHHlJ-I
Pff, more insults:) and here you are claiming that you are not insulting anyone anywhere in your posts... read your previous posts and consider that if you don't see any insults there, it only shows that the particular type of thinking is so ingrained into your personality that you don't even see it when you are insulting women. Why should I even bother arguing about it here, merely countering a spam of biased claims now makes myself a target. Yes indeed I am not here for useless fights as I have better things to do.

My guess women don't have the same interest in chess, my girlfriend who very intelligent can probabily be a master but she hate chess and has no interest in chess. Woman tend to be more social and you are sitting quietly for hours playing chess; my personal observation, my girlfriend rather be doing things instead sitting and playing chess. She of course is the boss in a lot things we do. I think is wise to keep your girlfriend or wife happy.
(#172) It appears to me that there are those (and this is fine with me) who just can't stand imbalances.
That imbalance is between your ears Harvey !....You're so hopelessly left-brained that you couldn't even slightly begin to understand your right side. Thank gawt your daughters are using both sides & your gene pool got chlorinated, de-algaed, & cleaned of leaves !