Why does chess attract so many beta males?

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TakeThisPawn

There are so many bad losers in chess. Even all the way up to GM level. *cough Nakamura *cough. 

What is it about this game that attracts the vindictive and the petty? The type that will sit there and let their clock run down because you're up a piece? 

I have a theory that its because most of us aren't very strong physically. So we play chess which is a perfect way to be passive aggressive against other males without the threat of ever being punched in the face.

Strangemover
TakeThisPawn wrote:

... a perfect way to be passive aggressive against other males without the threat of ever being punched in the face.

Much like many 'discussions' on these forums. 

50Kittens
So true! Insecurity leads to being petty. Guys need to realize intelligence, wit, and charm can sexy too.
TakeThisPawn

This is what I mean. Titled players using insults that only they know the meaning of. So aggressive. 

ryan_x_d
ghost_of_pushwood wrote:

A better question is:  why do the forums seem to attract so many would-be fizzakeeatrists?

damn...it seems like someone got called out lmao

OldPatzerMike

I bet Ricky Ricardo would know what a fizzakeeatrist is.

DiscipleOfKeres

These are all labels anyway. You enjoy playing chess, bad losers are part of the game. Online, you can switch to youtube when an opponent is being petty. In tournaments, you can stand up and observe other games. The other part of the game is being sportsmanlike, but is made more difficult with anonymous screens.

In some endgame situations, a piece does not always mean a loss. There are times when a draw is the only result.

sameez1

nothing here just a bunch of fizzakeeatrists.

hisokaxhunter

RedGirlZ wrote:

Aren't u technically a beta male as well?

 

Ur literally on a chess site, and even more so ur posting on the forums lol. 

good one 😂

hisokaxhunter

RedGirlZ wrote:

Aren't u technically a beta male as well?

 

Ur literally on a chess site, and even more so ur posting on the forums lol. 

good one 😂

MurderBlood

I think you're severely underestimating the stratospherically high levels of douchebaggery in the "alpha male" community. I think it's just a male thing, really. Hazing, bullying and pressure to conform are just part of coming-of-age when you're XY.

52yrral

*TakeThisPawn*   Sounds like entrapment!

LondonDungeon
TakeThisPawn wrote:

There are so many bad losers in chess. Even all the way up to GM level. *cough Nakamura *cough. 

 

What is it about this game that attracts the vindictive and the petty? The type that will sit there and let their clock run down because you're up a piece? 

I have a theory that its because most of us aren't very strong physically. So we play chess which is a perfect way to be passive aggressive against other males without the threat of ever being punched in the face.

Next thing you'll be howling about rematches I suspect. Just another Betamax!

ABC_of_EVERYTHING

https://www.themodernman.com/success/alpha-male-vs-beta-male.html

Interesting perceptive. Even though i differ to say that everybody have some elements of both alpha, beta and omega male during the day. 

Sred

Better than being an alpha male. In a civilized society, there is nothing more ridiculous.

f169
greatswindler wrote:
Most male chess players are physically unattractive.

"Not a problem for me. Only give out my personal info in chat to ladies with severe visual imparities. Have skyped with 2 of them and still have my uncle's stash of Brut and OldSpice from 1980 in case we meet IRL, to take care of that other problem."

                /

Strangemover

Alpha male right here ⬆️

YesPromise

When I'm losing, I feel I am actually chased by crabs, and that's why I think it is unfair. The goddess Maat is momentarily dead. The universe has tricked me. There were no crabs visible on the rules list. 

YesPromise

I am definitely more concerned about the crabs.. They will come for me again.

ginzbirdman

I'm sorry Wuhan but humans were not intended to eat snakes.