By the way, I DID get banned from playing games because Faze-Ninja (?) added me to a tournament illegally and I refused to play in it.
I FINALLY wrote to a guy with a green pawn next to his name (I figured that meant he was a moderator or something) and he got me removed without penalty.
Chess.com is so overwhelmed with HELP issues they still never wrote back.
Glad I found the guy with the green pawn.
wAT