be yourself
The truth is that if you're in touch with an absolutely beautiful person you'll naturally love them but if you aren't the love transforms gradually in to an Agape love.
..True, story ->.. Without knowing in advance, how I would react ; An apparently 'down-and-out', mid-fiftyish man, @ 'McDonald's, {fast food}; Politely asked, if I 'could spare, 1 or 2 dollars', within, the hour. ..{I was 'dining' alone, of course}.
With, a surprising, absence, of hesitation, on my part.. I reached in my shirt pocket, & gave him, 2 bucks ! -- The thought occurred to me, afterwards.. That, it wasn't by 'chance' that- that, inter-action 'te$t' came about, {in the meta-physical realm, I Don't believe, 'chance' exists!}.. And, supposedly - It will 'karmaically', put 'moi' in 'good graces'.. If-and-when, I'm in $imilar need !
I've been counting my blessings this week.
I took a library book out a few years ago and when it came time to renew it I couldn't find it anywhere, looked all over the house, just couldn't recall where I'd put it. I rang the library and explained and she said what's it called. I said its called 'How To Improve Your Memory'. She couldn't stop laughing. 😁
It's true!
I think though essentially the truth is that to my surprise the truth is without knowing someone an Eros love becomes an Agape love.