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MEXIMARTINI
Mar 4, 2017
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#241
General-TsoTso wrote:

no way can i believe you have a wife tom, a couple with a healthy relationship wouldn't be so far apart, one on the Internet all day looking for new virtual relationships and the other somewhere else.

 

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Flank_Attacks
Mar 4, 2017
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#242

.. In, All 'competitions'.. If, there's a sufficiently 'Serious' approach..  It has 'parallels' to being, either an 'Agony'.. or, 'Ecstasy'!  o: ..{'breaking' story, from, yesterday}

http://www.twincities.com/2017/03/03/high-school-wrestling-centennials-emily-shilson-loses-first-state-tournament-match/

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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#243
The thing with writing publicly is that you get attacked.

You're gay you're dumb you're a liar. Just whatever can be thrown at you.

I see to be able to do what I'm doing you have to have an absolute belief in yourself and I have that.

I suppose I'm a bizarre contradiction. On the one hand I assert I know I'm love and on the other I assert I know I don't exist.

And that's the truth!
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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#244
I don't mind what people believe. What difference does it make to my life? Absolutely none.
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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#245
I like that ed. I have a little red wine calling my name for tonight.

Kick your shoes off do not fear bring that bottle over here. I'll be your baby tonight.
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General-TsoTso
Mar 4, 2017
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#246

you're getting attacked again tom ? no! defending illusions doesn't mean you're under attack, but it might feel like it in la-la land online.

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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#247
I would like to explore that. I'm love I don't exist. Interesting!
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MEXIMARTINI
Mar 4, 2017
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#248
Tomlight wrote:
Take Carolina Mexi. You see a sweet person in her and enjoy her. It doesn't matter that her words are written and not spoken.

I admire you Mexi because you are one of few people that have the balls to show who they are publicly. And that pays off for you because you have rewarding relationships here.

 

it kind of does matter...eventually.  to hear a voice rather than read words?    come on man...huge difference.

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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#249
No it's all good. We are a collective consciousness and every word here is valuable. Let's be objective.
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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#250
No I totally disagree Mexi. Totally. I have loved through written word as deeply as it's possible to love.

It's all about how deeply a person is willing to expose themselves. The form of the words means nothing.
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General-TsoTso
Mar 4, 2017
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#251

anyway, probably no point being married and gay at the same time.

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Flank_Attacks
Mar 4, 2017
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#252

.. At, the 'ripe' age, of '66'.. I have No doubt, that, 'Emily' could prevail, against 'moi'.. What, with my, rather, rudimentary, knowledge, of 'wrestling' technique. - Anyway.. I'd likely 'hold back'.. Merely, from, the 'gender' factor, alone !

 

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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#253
Ha ha ha. Reveal who they are. Open their heart. Show their soul.
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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#254
Yeah throw the gay comment in. Believe me I hear a whole lot worse from my kids. What I hear here is a breeze. Anyway that's not an insult. Not in my opinion.
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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#255
Mexi think of those you love. Why do you love them? Because of who they are.

Don't you think they could show you that through writing? I think so.
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MEXIMARTINI
Mar 4, 2017
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#256
Tomlight wrote:
No I totally disagree Mexi. Totally. I have loved through written word as deeply as it's possible to love.

It's all about how deeply a person is willing to expose themselves. The form of the words means nothing.

then you my friend...have not experienced love to its fullest

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MEXIMARTINI
Mar 4, 2017
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#257
Tomlight wrote:
Mexi think of those you love. Why do you love them? Because of who they are.

Don't you think they could show you that through writing? I think so.

it may be a stepping stone...but not to the fullest extent

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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#258
Right we will agree to differ then Mexi. I'm sure you would agree though you've had fulfilling relationships through written word though.
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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#259
Interactions I mean. You know friendship
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Tomlight
Mar 4, 2017
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#260
I think here is like any other place in that the more you invest in a relationship the more you can get out of it.

People say oh it's impossible to get this and that here but that's a self fulfilling prophecy.

People are people and spoken and written words demonstrate who we are.

At least here you have to concentrate. Offline attention is so fragmented. It's hard to connect.