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Apr 28, 2020
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#48
You sound really young. Too young to be in a relationship.
Spend your time doing something worthwhile - get a hobby, learn a martial art, get exercise.
A crush is a passing emotion. Just be friends and save the romance for later on, when you are done with school, have a good job, and emotional maturity.
Apr 28, 2020
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#49
teju17 wrote:
im just paranoid that she may also have a crush on someone else
This should send warning flags up inside your head.
1) It is not normal to be this jealous
2) It is a sign that you have control issues, which can lead to being an abuser
3) You view women like objects to be possessed.
NONE of this is good. You need to grow up some more and gain some healthy perspective about what a good relationship means before you get involved with anyone.
Finally, you don't go straight up to someone and dump all your anxieties on them, demanding an answer. If you want a relationship, then earn it. Make a picnic lunch, find a nice nature place to enjoy the lunch, and then give her some small present like a necklace, and ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend. If she doesn't come right out and say "yes", then it means "no".
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Apr 28, 2020
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#53
JustARandomPatzer wrote:
teju17 wrote:
Woah that's a little overboard.
ok ill have to propose
At least @teju17 won't need more "crush advice"
Apr 28, 2020
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#54
4gotten_legend wrote:
and if she rejects you just say happy April fools!!!
That is smart
Apr 28, 2020
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#55
teju17 wrote:
ive done this forum about like 5 times and this is the first time anyone has lokked into it
Mmm yes I see that
Apr 28, 2020
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#56
Magnetta123 wrote:
4gotten_legend wrote:
and if she rejects you just say happy April fools!!!
That is smart
with a sad heart.
Play it safe. If you are young, like me, don't take it seriously.
I had a friend who actually asked me instead of the other way around, and she took it WAY to seriously, so when I told her that I just want to take it slow and for her to kind of back off a little (I didn't actually say "back off", that would be mean and very disresectful), she didn't get the hint.
So just take it slow and try to get to know them first, and where she stands in likes/dislikes before actually asking her or anything.
But, like most things, this crush will either pass on and you'll find someone else or it'll last a long time, in which I will now wish you good luck 👍
I had a friend who actually asked me instead of the other way around, and she took it WAY to seriously, so when I told her that I just want to take it slow and for her to kind of back off a little (I didn't actually say "back off", that would be mean and very disresectful), she didn't get the hint.
So just take it slow and try to get to know them first, and where she stands in likes/dislikes before actually asking her or anything.
But, like most things, this crush will either pass on and you'll find someone else or it'll last a long time, in which I will now wish you good luck 👍
Oh, and if she rejects you, don't be upset.
DavidNorman435 wrote:
This is key. Remain calm, NO MATTER WHAT.
Oh, and if she rejects you, don't be upset.
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