Getting at ease with women - PUA

Sort:
ConnorMacleod_151
konhidras wrote:

My tip>. Do compliment them but never on how beautiful they are, beauty is common. Try playing ticks on some areas other than the face. Its all about the tease.Punish em when they become brats during a conversation but do reward them with your attention when needed. Lastly dont ever be the ass kisser. :)

So a$$ kissing is a no no ?!

einstein99

Only for you.

ConnorMacleod_151

why?

einstein99

Because your too young.

ConnorMacleod_151

The dog is 7 ... i'm 47 ... i have a$$ kissing experience.

...having said that ... so has the dog Embarassed

OldChessDog

Here is my advice. When you want to date--focus on dating. When you want to play chess--focus on playing chess. 

ConnorMacleod_151

Love is very old fashioned.... 

ElKitch
ConnorMacleod_151 wrote:
konhidras wrote:

My tip>. Do compliment them but never on how beautiful they are, beauty is common. Try playing ticks on some areas other than the face. Its all about the tease.Punish em when they become brats during a conversation but do reward them with your attention when needed. Lastly dont ever be the ass kisser. :)

So a$$ kissing is a no no ?!

Especially with more beautifull women ass kissing will probably get you nowhere. You are nr 1000 who says she has beautifull eyes and hair. Rather compliment her on things that are not related to her looks, but to her character. Also dont position yourself as the a$skisser, rather as someone who is not greatly impressed by her looks (HOW you do this totally depends on your personality).

Girls that are not very pretty do enjoy compliments much more! And when you give them, give them about something you genuinly find nice.

ElKitch
ILove-mating wrote:

I love to kick it with women...Even though my girl can get upset about it sometimes. I think it takes some courage to post about this - do you kick it with a variety of women? Or just got an idea that this community could use some help?

I apply concepts and to me it really works. Slept with a girl that I think is really fun and goodlooking, and we are still chatting. Yesterday dated a girl. She was looking for a relation, told her I wasnt. We kissed all night though- and it ends there. Fine. Next friday I am going to a mum of two, 37yrs old Laughing. Its going to get horrible or alot of fun. I dont care, Im single so bring on the adventure and crazy times! 

ConnorMacleod_151
tubebender wrote:
ElKitch wrote:
ILove-mating wrote:

I love to kick it with women...Even though my girl can get upset about it sometimes. I think it takes some courage to post about this - do you kick it with a variety of women? Or just got an idea that this community could use some help?

I apply concepts and to me it really works. Slept with a girl that I think is really fun and goodlooking, and we are still chatting. Yesterday dated a girl. She was looking for a relation, told her I wasnt. We kissed all night though- and it ends there. Fine. Next friday I am going to a mum of two, 37yrs old . Its going to get horrible or alot of fun. I dont care, Im single so bring on the adventure and crazy times! 

Go for it! Now, how best to seduce a much younger neighbor? I`m 66--she`s about 28 but she likes my company. I have a thing for Asians.

I bet she calls u grand dad Frown

AlCzervik
ElKitch wrote:


- dont have the goal to get laid!

All your sage advice is now forgotten.

ConnorMacleod_151

I like women that like shooting.

Guns and girls... heaven Laughing

ConnorMacleod_151
tubebender wrote:
ElKitch wrote:
ILove-mating wrote:

I love to kick it with women...Even though my girl can get upset about it sometimes. I think it takes some courage to post about this - do you kick it with a variety of women? Or just got an idea that this community could use some help?

I apply concepts and to me it really works. Slept with a girl that I think is really fun and goodlooking, and we are still chatting. Yesterday dated a girl. She was looking for a relation, told her I wasnt. We kissed all night though- and it ends there. Fine. Next friday I am going to a mum of two, 37yrs old . Its going to get horrible or alot of fun. I dont care, Im single so bring on the adventure and crazy times! 

Go for it! Now, how best to seduce a much younger neighbor? I`m 66--she`s about 28 but she likes my company. I have a thing for Asians.

Seriously....Here's a video that might help

ElKitch
AlCzervik wrote:
ElKitch wrote:


- dont have the goal to get laid!

All your sage advice is now forgotten.

The point is: if that is the only thing on your mind, you will behave like that, you might get frustrated when the date/conversation is not going that way. In my opinion it is better to not have that goal, but work on everything else and getting laid will eventually come by itself.

In chessterms: if you only practice mating patterns, you will not likely execute them because you dont have the strategy/tactics to get to such situation first.

ElKitch
ConnorMacleod_151 wrote:

Seriously....Here's a video that might help

 

Nice video. And I dont have much other advice. I am absolutely not a professional PUA guy, I just read a book and watched some youtubevideos. But some things you could try:
I reckon you have talked already, quite often perhaps. During a conversation try to touch her. Touch her not in a sexual way, just lay a han on her arm when you tell her the cliffhanger of your funny story. When she is sitting and you are walking past and start talking to her lay your hand on her shoulder. Make such touches spontaneous, not forced, and not with a trembling hand.

This does a couple things: 1) physical contacts makes humans bond 2) she gets comfortable with you touching her, if you ever touch her otherwise she is already comfortable with you touching her 3) if done appropriatly she can feel that your touch is not trembly or insecure, but the touch of a real man 4) you can gauge her response to you touching her

ConnorMacleod_151

I just found out what PUA stands for Embarassed

ConnorMacleod_151

Does 'go down' mean... fall down the stairs?

einstein99

Its when Clint Eastwood shoots someone, they always

go down.

ConnorMacleod_151

Laughing

woof!

konhidras
tubebender wrote:

I have a thing for Asians.

Oh my...i gotta get outta here. lol