I’m not really sure what advice to give…
ig just this: the first step is the hardest, but it’s the most important. You already know she’d be there for you. You just have to be willing to let her.
I need advice. And support.
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the best way to solve things and insecurities is to talk about them with people that you trust, then after you can tell ur friend, if u really need help and feel depressed it might sound hard but the best way is always to search for friends and professional help too ofc
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#4
I want to tell her so bad. She's so pretty and wears skirts often...
I just want her to sympathize.
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#5
Wnder_of_U wrote:
the best way to solve things and insecurities is to talk about them with people that you trust, then after you can tell ur friend, if u really need help and feel depressed it might sound hard but the best way is always to search for friends and professional help too ofc
No one else knows I'm trans. She's the first one I want to tell.
if shes ur friend and she thinks similar to u in ideologies and other stuff for sure shes gonna support you
if shes the first one u want to tell u for sure trust her, and talking with her might help u to tell other people about it, the first step is hard but its gonna relieve alot of weight of you
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#8
Wnder_of_U wrote:
if shes the first one u want to tell u for sure trust her, and talking with her might help u to tell other people about it, the first step is hard but its gonna relieve alot of weight of you
I do trust her.
if u do, shes not gonna judge and is she supports all the lgbt stuff in general of shes not gonna judge u, shes gonna support u bc is ur desition and stuff
2 days ago
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#10
I probably shouldn't have made this. Another person I know is on cc and knows who I am.
u want to come out and talk about it, then why u taking it back now? u gotta talk about it to fully advance with it even if its hard
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#12
Wnder_of_U wrote:
u want to come out and talk about it, then why u taking it back now? u gotta talk about it to fully advance with it even if its hard
Yeah, but only the one friend and maybe a few others. Not the person I'm talking about ;-;
yeah, i know, so now u gotta talk to her about it, and u dont gotta be scared, you already know she trusts u, and she supports lgbt, so u should give it a try and talk abt it with her
2 days ago
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#15
SpongetheFifth wrote:
Does this person know about otf?
No, but you can see my forums from my profile...
2 days ago
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#16
SpongetheFifth wrote:
Does this person know about otf?
Wait my friend or the person I'm afraid will see this?
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#18
SpongetheFifth wrote:
The person you don’t want seeing it
Then see #15.
No, this dosen't have anything to do with chess.com, which is why it's in OTF.
I seriously need advice. I'm so depressed, I seriously need help. For those who don't know, I'm trans male to female, and I really want to come out to my friend. She supports LGBT and we have a lot of LGBT friends. She knows I'm jealous of her becasue she's really pretty and she knows I was thinking about being trans. I can't tell her, but I need to tell her. it actually hurts for her to not know.
I need someone in real life to talk about this with.
People that come across as transphobic will be blocked.