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Hi Kay. Mysterious Kaynight.
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I was thinking. I say say what you want when you want. Well it's not for me to moderate here so that's cool.

In my offline life though actually I have feelings and I can only cope with so much.

So I would like people to relax and be themselves but not say what they want when they want!
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I guess that in these threads I have a therapist in that I talk abut how I'm seeing the world. Or a place I map.

I think actually that those two things amount to the same.
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It's interesting how people come and go here. I'm one of those I know. Curious. Perhaps we get bored or burnt out.
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I love Kay's negative comment starts the page!

We all have needs and I guess everyone that posts here is either fulfilling or attempting to fulfil a need.
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I wonder if we are probably motivated by a singular need or often motivated by multiple needs. Then there's subconscious and conscious need fulfilment. Perhaps
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Tom-Tom.Your presence is immediately required at your "Wine" thread (bar).The potential punters are getting restive.We look to you to start the Ball rolling with plenty of bibulous chat.Have a drink.Cheers.I can't run the Bar alone.Sadly even the "Rugby" thread you started seems to be getting neglected.Come on winger-score a try!!!!

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I can see something here.

I've been talking about what life is. The fabric of life. I need to make a decision whether that journey is compete or not.

I'm not totally there yet but if I think I'm settled on my solution I'll move on to talking about life generally.

I'm not here to wonder forever what life is. I'm here to nail it!
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Buddy I'll see you in your new boxing thread!
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Can I have a season ticket to a ringside seat?Also remind me when you were a boxing champion a few years ago were you flyweight?Undecided

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No! Middleweight!
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I don't think that I am going to change my notes iro my OCD after all you know.
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TomGa wrote:
I'm not personally interested in the whole God does doesn't exist question myself. Anyway if you class God as the giver of life whether you term that nature or our father that giver clearly is true.

 

 That is a logical assumption, but a speculation isn't worth much.

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Like I still and always will be presented with the idea of choice. Though I know that choice to be false. I know it'll make me ill to solve.

You see this is as close as you can get to losing the illusion. You're aware choice is there but you're aware that choice doesn't really exist.

It's hard to explain!

I'll get there.
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'Strong- Powerful'.. backs & arms, needed ! ..{and, if the 'gif' doesn't 'take' here.. perhaps, you'll never 'get it'!?}.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/0e8961e5ece5569c34891b302430e2a7/tumblr_mg7d2sfulf1qbrivdo1_500.gif

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TomGa wrote:
Like I still and always will be presented with the idea of choice. Though I know that choice to be false. I know it'll make me ill to solve.

 You're aware choice is there but you're aware that choice doesn't really exist.


 

The brain cannot be confused and have clarity at the same time. Choice exists only in confusion. If one 'sees' choice , they are confused.

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Hmm.

That's not my experience. My experience is that things are fragmented. The enlightened mind sees this. An overview.

So there's choice but then there is innate desire which I guess is driven by need.

The choice is an illusion because there is in reality only one option due to the innate desire.

However still the experience of choice remains!
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As one who believes that constrained 'choice' exists.. {that produces, somewhat different 'results'} - On this web-site, for example.. {and admittedly, it's a superfluous example} - I'm aware, that if I want to reach a somewhat 'higher' online live 'rating' .. I stand a better chance, of acheiving that, if I were to play, exclusively - In the 'wee' {very early}, hours, of the morning here - Than to have, my 'wi-fi' connection, competing with, All the other 'local' 'wi-fi' users.. When More people, are awake.. and the 'disconnect' problem, rears its' 'head' more often! o:

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However, the experience of choice remains!

 

Of course, it remains, but only in the trivial field: I prefer a gold Jaguar over a red Ferrari, I like reds over blondes, Mercedes over Mustang.

 But in the mental field, there is nothing to chose: everything is crystal clear.

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I see your point SA but you are talking about the external world. We are talking about what's driving action.
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