What do you think?
Pathetic Clowns

What do you think?

It is really simple. If any member - whether 24 hours old account or 10 years - starts a conversation with you that you are not comfortable with then report them.
think that's an abuse of report, and that's a reason someone can report you for
if it's uncomfortable, just block them. However, if it's sexually assaulting, or something else that breaks the chess.com rules, you can report them

I wanted to talk about clubs a bit today. All of us here have a different attitude to this concept.
There are 2 categories :
Those who are here to socialize more than to play chess , like to join many clubs and be active in them .
The others who are here to focus more on chess , prefer joining a very few clubs which are managed by strong players and 90percent of the content is about chess.
But I figured out there's a third category as well. Those who join clubs where you find girls . I noticed this habit in one user back in October last year , but now I have spotted enough number of people that I am convinced that these are not exceptions and that these people exist in considerate numbers to make up the third group a healthy and big one.
Now I shouldn't have much issues with it , I feel this attitude honestly clumsy and disgusting. And their personality isn't different either .
Here's an anecdote. There was one guy who had quit my club . I asked him the reason behind it . He said , he only joined clubs that were extremely chess centred , had many tournaments and more high rated players . After two days I see him joining more than 10 clubs . All of them were either K-pop , or Doggy , or puppy clubs . All of them with a girl admin with a rating not higher than 900.
Let me make it clear. I have no problems with girls and their clubs that are mostly non chess related. Neither was I trying to disrespect their rating. All I have an issue is with these clowns I mentioned already .
Also I wasn't salty about him leaving my club . Yes I was in the beginning , but now I feel better if such people don't join my club. Or I could just change my entire profile and fake my identity to get more people to my club. But it's not worth it . Also it's worth mentioning that majority of the people in this third group are middle aged and old men . Though there are young boys as well. Atleast this is what I have observed from my experience. And honestly I don't think so this is something people are unaware of . You all be speaking aggressively against stalkers and pervs who trouble girls , but do nothing about these people who are just a less toxic and a more civilized version of the former in my opinion .
I know many are not going to agree with me , but I want to listen to your views.
As long as there is life on this planet there will be lowlife simps. There's no stopping it.

It is really simple. If any member - whether 24 hours old account or 10 years - starts a conversation with you that you are not comfortable with then report them.
think that's an abuse of report, and that's a reason someone can report you for
if it's uncomfortable, just block them. However, if it's sexually assaulting, or something else that breaks the chess.com rules, you can report them
Who are you trying to kid? If someone sends me harassing messages then they are being reported it is that simple. I come to this site to play chess and if men can't understand that then they joined the wrong damn site. To suggest I should be reported for them harassing ME is outrageous!!

I would like to say a simple thing. Most of the people are making their clubs only for their ego.
There's nothing related to chess.
Boys will be always interested in girls, girls will be always interested in boys, lol

I would like to say a simple thing. Most of the people are making their clubs only for their ego.
There's nothing related to chess.
Boys will be always interested in girls, girls will be always interested in boys, lol
yea like my fanclub lmao

I would like to say a simple thing. Most of the people are making their clubs only for their ego.
There's nothing related to chess.
Boys will be always interested in girls, girls will be always interested in boys, lol
yea like my fanclub lmao
tfw you figure out he isnt a girl
everyone in my fanclub knows I'm a guy, and everyone who reads everything in my bio knows I'm a guy

ah I find it really funny, That's why I simply just dont put it out there what my gender is. But I have noticed how people treat profiles with a picture of a girl differently even in the forums. Sometimes, I really do wish there were more girls active so I could be like hey sis, we are both girls. yeahhh lets play.
Why don't you ? You have a lot of incentive in revealing your gender
I wouldn't want to attract people who would come to me just because I am a girl. I like attention and I like engagement just like anyone else, but not the wrong kind.
Respect 💯.
By the way not to offend any girl , but many females to don't do anything about it , even though they know this is wrong.
did you not read how much creepy stuff they have to face just because they portray who they are. There is nothing wrong in showing who you are. Its not the women's fault lol. Change how you think
No you got me wrong. I never said there's anything wrong with revealing who you are. Neither am I denying that women here have to go through creepy stuff.
My point is there are many women here who say they are not comfortable with these creepy stuff but don't reflect it on their actions . They let the creeps hang on around them until it gets out of their hand. You can either be a person who has no problem with these pervs or a person who cannot tolerate them at all. If you are someone in the middle for your own benefits you deserve no respect.

I would like to say a simple thing. Most of the people are making their clubs only for their ego.
There's nothing related to chess.
Boys will be always interested in girls, girls will be always interested in boys, lol
Girls aren't interested in boys here.
Ok, many will see a girl on the game and automatically start cat calling which in a since isnt exactly possible on a game but it is possible through messages. Ive gotten many message in which some are very intolerable. Very one sided, and very uncomfortable. My suggestion for the woman out there that struggle with this on this game is to ignore the ones who are obviously out for something and the others you can tolerate lol. But just because woman aren’t playing much chess does not give a reason for men to Gauk. My club grew very fast. All invites i sent out were excepted, but now if you have a male send out those same invites they are denied. Why is that many will ask. Well i dont have the answer to that. It has been proven over and over again and again that I’m not great at chess. But like Anonymous dragon stated men will say they join clubs that are chess active but yet you turn around and you see that same man in a club that has a girl SA or even a club that has a female background. Its the way of life. And you get used to it. But you dont have to exept it. Thanks for reading this to the end if you had the patience to do so.
How are we supposed to get used to it ? It's so annoying. The only solution I see out of it is to fake my identity and change it to a female
Or force all people with a pretty picture to change them
Change your pfp right now !!!!!!!!!!!!!
why
You’ve got abit of an obsession with this dragon.
So specific. You are the lobster man from mars ARENT YOU ?! I found you AT LAST