First.
WELL DONE IS TERRIBLE

I grew up eating steak that was very well done because my parents were overly concerned (and probably misinformed) about food safety. As a result I'm now an adult who doesn't even enjoy steak. I'd rather order pretty much anything else

IMO, medium is better than medium rare, just because it’s a little too soft for my taste, but I’ll eat it for sure
Medium or medium rare are the only reasonable ways to eat steak