what’s the deal with dating on otf?? ⚠️TW OPINIONS⚠️
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No seriously a chess forum is the worst possible place to get a date. You have more chances of getting a 9yo or a 54 yo man. There are specific apps dedicated to making love happen and there is another great alternative to a dating app called going outside and meeting someone. Plus if you don’t hook up then you get the chance to learn what to improve on an external and internal level. Plus even if you do hook up on otf there’s a massive chance they’re on a whole other continent
Otf should be for regular chatting or having fun
Jul 23, 2025
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#3
Yeah, and there's this one guy who keeps spreading the word about dating here.
https://www.chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/im-looking-for-a-swexy-girlfriend?page=1
https://www.chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/want-a-girlfriend?page=1
https://www.chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/want-a-boyfriend?page=1
https://www.chess.com/forum/view/off-topic/need-dating-help
Not that there's anything wrong with that. I think that this is a great place to find true love. Just go into dating clubs and take your best shot.
I didn’t say « this one guy » had to stop their entire relationship, hence the word opinion used in the title in big bold letters. I don’t mind one or two people doing it as long as the forum turns into tinder 2.0 :)
Jul 23, 2025
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#12
My Dating Profile:
60 years old
5' 11"/1.8 m
161 lbs/73 kg
grey and white hair
Physically active
Seeking long term relationship with a woman that will leave me alone and let me do OTF and YouTube.
Jul 23, 2025
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#13
mattis1012 wrote:
Nothing wrong in dating online if u choose the right person
yes
it's no one's buisness but the people in the relationship
otf is full of baddies it’s fine
Opinions are triggers? Huh.
Real rich coming from #10 lol
#14 I (don’t) disagree
Aug 6, 2025
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#18
online dating exist in almost all online places. There are two sides to every stone.
