i couldnt read it all
especially after i did reading
why are people so desperate for a relationship?
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#231 this is a good thread, I don't have a answer for your question tho sorry
#233 check post 17
Aug 6, 2024
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#205
I’m not great at making threads either. I just try my best to make an interesting one and a thoughtful one. I don’t make too many, and post when it comes naturally to me.
Lol I don't see the hype having to make the best thread, but to just once and a while something seems to add then yeah why not make one.. lmao it's not like there's a scarcity with them, and of course you kids are going to have your adolescent threads, and some can be quite amusing. 😂
Aug 6, 2024
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#207
Absolutely. I don’t see why people over make threads to try and get a lot of posts. I prefer posts that are well thought outs, and provide a good discussion.
Apr 2, 2025
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#208
BasixWhiteBoy wrote:
I’ve noticed quite a lot of posts on otf about this, people talking about relationships, and more than anywhere else, in the real world. I’m asking this question to see why people are so desperate to have a relationship, usually at very young ages. I would like to discuss why this happens, and why having a companion at a young age is so important. Having a crush on someone is perfectly ok, but here are my standards for having. Most importantly, you have to connect with this person on an emotional level, and have had a deep friendship for a while. By “connect with this person on an emotional level”, I mean that you should have talked to this person for quite a long time, and learned a good amount about their personality, feelings, and much more. Jumping from just meeting this person to a relationship will never work, whether you choose to believe me or not. You should always ask why you would like to be in a relationship with this person before acting on your feelings, I think. If you saw them in the hallway and thought they were pretty, that should be no reason to ask them out. Which brings me to point number 2. You should never ever ever ask a girl or boy out just because she/ he is pretty or handsome. Sooooo many people do this in school, and it’s really painful to watch. Like I said before, it’s more about how the person looks. It should be more about how the person looks and how you guys connect emotionally, at least to me. Doing this will be foolish, and if you want to have a good relationship with a good person, you won’t do this. I guess what I’m trying to say with all of this is there’s really no use in rushing to have a crush, even though there are many benefits to having one. It should happen rather naturally, and shouldn’t be something you have every few weeks. So, I guess what I’m asking is, why are people so desperate for a relationship? This is not meant to offend anybody, and is not an insult to anybody, I’m just asking. Being in a relationship is amazing, it really is, but why do people go to such lengths to try so hard to get there? Alright guys, enjoy the thread, and try to have a thoughtful response to all of this. Thanks.
imagine pretending to like someone or liking somone, and that on chess.com of all things 
You're the only one who thinks that..."Legend In His Own Mind"...🙄🙄
NIVEK1000 wrote:
You're the only one who thinks that..."Legend In His Own Mind"...🙄🙄
Why don't you just post from your main account?
me too...