As you know the motto of our club is
Top full respect to Oscar (@chavezo)
for his high sportsmanship act in his game vs @Slugman92 today.
https://www.chess.com/game/live/144072018731
move 14: W (slugman92) slip the mouse when W intend to swap Q.
While the game is not set into Take-Back on, and Oscar could capitalize on this error, but instead Oscar allowing to play few couple of moves in order to reset to the position before mouse slip.
Dear @bshoot (Brian)
I fully agree with your point of not getting too upset.
My perspective on that is as follow:
I think it's almost 15 years at least that I am not (and never) interested anymore to play practice game vs computer (let say vs Fritz software in my computer), since the computer level is already so high, that is not fun anymore to play and try to beat them at their standard high level.
If I lower their level, then their 'intended' blunder seem artificial to me.
Note: that even the very best player in the world these days are not interested to play & try to beat the best engine today (it's already different era that we know in the past where Kasparov vs Computer match still the attractive challenge both to player himself and to audience who eagerly want to watch it, because the computer is still within the beat-able range). These days even if that match happen, they need to set the handicap (eg. The Knight odds or time control odds, that look weird for my taste)
Then what I did with that software in my computer for these recent years is:
If I cannot beat them, then why not join or hire them instead? To be my 24/7 personal assistant eg. helping analyze my finished game etc. or help me exploring / testing new ideas in opening.
With that positive mindset, if in any particular bad days (I think it can happen once for a while that I was beaten by human who later is found out doing cheat) then my perspective is:
I simply don't care and will not waste my energy for being sore or upset. I just assume that on that day I practiced vs Fritz software that I never did it anymore for more than 15 years, and I have tried my best. I will surely learn something from any game that I lose, even more lesson learnt is from the very best opponent, no matter how painful it is.
Addendum: As I stated in my previous post, some people join this club as practicing place for their incoming regular OTB, but there are some people who can have only chance to play this classical time control by online. For whatever situation you are, then as long as you think that you will get much more practice benefit from this online chess tourney in the long term than the disadvantage (that is beyond our control) then it is a golden opportunity, otherwise you will play classical in OTB tournaments only.
Thanks again @bshoot @SHF @Noemis05 @Magyar1949 for your previous reply & support on this matter.